Excellent! I couldn't have said it better myself. I am sorry that some only feel it is a hand job. Either they went to someone under the guise of a Tantrika or educator, or they missed the boat about the spiritual sexuality.
If I may add to your to explaination of Tantra? Tantra means the Weaving Consciousness. True, it is total freedom of the bounds that have been set about sex, our sexuality and practices. Sex and our sexuality is NOT a sin! The point right before orgasm or in orgams catapults you into the void, (you might want to look into Tantra Buddhism), when in this state we are without ego and illusion, we are in our purest perfection and united with the ALL or the Divine, or our higher self, etc., whatever your belief system. Also, we are very vunerable at this moment and here is an FYI, women who are fridget and men with penial dysfunction, have at one point in time had a very traumic experience or something demeaning said to them. Of course, not only emotionally have they internalized this but now show a physical display, due to the trauma. This is called a blockage. About blockages, we all have them, we all hold our trauma, abuse, stress and enviromental influences within our bodies and our spiritual, ehteric, or subtle bodies. These blockages if not released can cause harm. Example a lost love, a broken heart, or someone has been hurt deeply, can cause heart, lung and circulation problems, if holding in the heart Chakra. The blockage is usually a repression of love for ones self and others, and being out of balance. If one tends to hold in Solar Plexus Chakra, this can lead to stomach and digestive problems, even diabeties. This blockage is taking on more then one can utilize, too much emphasis on power or recognition and anger/fear. And the list can go on and on, because we have around 3,000 of these Chakras through out our bodies. Though the 7 major ones are are the most important.
In Tantra the man is seen as the warrior/god Shiva, the woman as the Goddess Shakti. The male energy needs the feminine to make it move. Example: male energy, the thought of creation, but that is all it is, a thought. Feminine energy is the energy that moves the thought of creation. In a Puja, (celebration of the Divine), the man and woman represent the god and goddess and for the length of the Puja take each other as husband and wife.
One last word and I will end what had started to be just a brief responds. But, it is hard to be brief about my passion and life work. Tantra is and was the first written (Sanskrit) philsophy and science. From this came yoga, Hinduism, Buddhism and Judo-Christian practices and religions. Of course, each has or had manipulated into what would be best for their belief system. The exception being Yoga, if you are taking from Guru. If you learning from a sports center or that type of facility, I doubt you will recieve any spiritual benefits, they tend to leave that out and focus on the positions only. Hope I didn't step on any toes!
If you are interested in learning more about Tantra I suggest reading Andre' Van Lysebeth book, "Tantra, cult of the Feminine." If you want other sources, please contact me.
As always, May the Goddess bring each and everyone Blessings of Love and Light!
Hugs, Mary
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