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I was speaking to a MtF in West Frankfort IL
AmberAffection See my TER Reviews 820 reads
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And there are almost zero escorts, male or female, in SoIL!!

 
S/he's looking for someone to spend time with her at a movie and just rest his arm over her shoulders.
I know it seems blasé, but I'm also a little hesitant to post on CL or BP about it.

Can anyone recommend any other good websites for meeting people, such as Meetup or RentAFriend?

MissErinBlack418 reads

and craigslist has worked for many a people.

And i know you weren't trying to be offensive, simply by the tone of your message. But if she's MtF, then she is a she.  not a "s/he".

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AmberAffection510 reads

:/

I don't mean to offend with my uncertainty on pronoun use.
I'll stick to referring to her as a she in future situations, since you pointed out that MtF is female.  
I really admire you, Erin. Thanks.  

I've read about OK Cupid on Reddit, because they have a subforum about it, but from what I've seen, it's a dating site.
Do you have any tips or suggestions for reaching out to men who may not be initially interested in a MtF person?

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MissErinBlack463 reads

That is indeed a tough one, Amber.  I know OKC has a setting for "seeking friends", but I don't know of anyplace else aside from the sites you've already mentioned.  Meetup might be the best suggestion, though.

And no worries on offending anyone with pronoun use.  It was a "the more you know" moment.  You're obviously trying to be helpful to her, and not bashing in any way. :)

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AmberAffection537 reads

It is a short hand term that Trans-Gender folk use to denote their internalized choice of gender.

 
MtF is Male to Female
FtM is Female to Male

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RogerC330 reads

I messaged her and told her I would totally be her movie pay date, but she's all the way in southern Illinois.  

I feel for folks who can't find what they want.

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Gemma Coreana378 reads

A male escort???  I'm looking for one.  Seriously I am. Who needs to be very open minded..... 😝😝😝😝

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RogerC317 reads

If there's a market for overweight middle aged straight male escorts, I am there. Totally

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