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Question - about girls calling guys and if you are not free at the time
the22phoenix 7 Reviews 1047 reads
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Do you think it is appropriate for a girl to call a guy without checking to see if he lives with wife, family, roomate, etc?  If thye check 1st it is ok ( I think), but one time a girl I saw in the past before I foudn this site (and she was very fun), got mad when I told her I couldnt see her one time she came down.  I had family obligations, and a bachlor party @ a casino with a friend who was getting married.  I thought the girl was cool and fun, but I could not change plans.  

She got mad at me when I was not avalaible and i have not seen her since.

Does it make sense for her to get pissed off at me?  I mean If she was not avallable when I wanted to see her I would understand as there are always obligations with family, friends, etc.  I am unsure why she got mad.

macdaddy1944833 reads

Provider rule #1..NEVER call a client without his OK..she wasn't pissed..just available..

Posted By: the22phoenix
Do you think it is appropriate for a girl to call a guy without checking to see if he lives with wife, family, roomate, etc?  If thye check 1st it is ok ( I think), but one time a girl I saw in the past before I foudn this site (and she was very fun), got mad when I told her I couldnt see her one time she came down.  I had family obligations, and a bachlor party @ a casino with a friend who was getting married.  I thought the girl was cool and fun, but I could not change plans.  

She got mad at me when I was not avalaible and i have not seen her since.

Does it make sense for her to get pissed off at me?  I mean If she was not avallable when I wanted to see her I would understand as there are always obligations with family, friends, etc.  I am unsure why she got mad.

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LongShot_Louie713 reads

FWIW my experience has taught me the obvious.... Women are in this industry for a lot of different reasons.....Sometimes its financial.... and desperate times, make desperate people do desperate things.... so maybe it wasnt you she was mad at so much as her own situation...you were just financial dissapointment....Some women are in this industry because they are not stable....I personally know one who is an absolutely wonderful provider about 7 months of the year, but lives on another planet the other 5....Some love the work....My point is you just never know.....So act like a man and assume you were just so good she was upset she couldnt get in your pants that night.....

Posted By: macdaddy1944
Provider rule #1..NEVER call a client without his OK..she wasn't pissed..just available..
Posted By: the22phoenix
Do you think it is appropriate for a girl to call a guy without checking to see if he lives with wife, family, roomate, etc?  If thye check 1st it is ok ( I think), but one time a girl I saw in the past before I foudn this site (and she was very fun), got mad when I told her I couldnt see her one time she came down.  I had family obligations, and a bachlor party @ a casino with a friend who was getting married.  I thought the girl was cool and fun, but I could not change plans.  

She got mad at me when I was not avalaible and i have not seen her since.

Does it make sense for her to get pissed off at me?  I mean If she was not avallable when I wanted to see her I would understand as there are always obligations with family, friends, etc.  I am unsure why she got mad.

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glowerlord591 reads

Hobbyist rule #1... If she calls you without your OK... Tell her she broke rule #1, then block her and never see her again.

Then write a review everywhere and tell all your hobby brethren about it.

In fact...

Reply and tell us who it is so we can avoid her.

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the22phoenix446 reads

She doesn't have reviews.  She was a cute girl from WI, and came here occasionally each month.  She was an exotic dancer up at a club in WI.  I would haev to look to see if I can find the club name.  This was before I heard about this site to I did not review her.  She was awesome in the begining, but it was uncool that she got mad when I was not free.  I mean I had plans with family and friends, and it would have been rude to break them just to see her.  It is not like she was my gf, fiance, wife, etc where I was obligated to her.

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asiantantric672 reads

get a bloody pre-paid phone purchased with cash to be used just for the hobby. Keep it hidden and erase all data on it always. Practice the dumb look to put on if SO ever finds the phone.

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the22phoenix490 reads

At this time I am single.  Never did this when I had a gf.  I did not mind so much that she called, but was not happy with her getting mad at me when I couldnt see her.

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SexyMilf4you508 reads

I would never in my life pick up the phone and call a client (unless I know for a fact they are single) to see if they'd like to see me...if a provider can keep a clients number on record, why not their email address?  There's no risk in sending an email; but, a phone call to an attached gent is a major violation.

MsManae

Related Link: http://www.SexyMilf4you.com

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the22phoenix366 reads

but if the guy is not free (has plans with family and friends that weekend would you get mad if he can't see you?)  The girl I am talking about got upset that I had plans.

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JamesDeenXXX488 reads

Only morons do that kind of stuff, both sides included......

Emailing is the best form of communication, until we both are aware of when one of us should call each other.

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glowerlord478 reads

Dude, you picked up a stripper! WTF??

Not that you've given more info in your replies, there is a much different scenario being revealed. I think you threw everyone off, because this is a forum about REAL providers.  Just because stripper or any other woman puts an ad up on a site somewhere does not mean she is a provider.

There are lots of blurred lines, all the way from a sugarbaby hopeful on adult friend finder to a stripper who goes home with you after you spent $200 dry humping in VIP and then afterwards asks you for a little tip.

Look, I had a woman (not a stripper) PICK ME up in a strip club. She told me up front at the club she might need a couple bucks and that was ok with me.  On the way to her place, she asked to stop and "buy wine" - $20 - then she asked if we could stop by a friends and asked if I had -$40 - for some bullshit reason. (She ended up buying you know what) Then we went to her place and got naked. But that exchange didn't mean she was a "Provider."

In none of these cases is there any etiquette that you can consider "appropriate." In all these cases you are on your own in uncharted territory. I mean... "it is was it is" and you are taking a risk.

I've picked up strippers where there was an exchange going on. Sometimes it rocked - going out on the town, drinks, dinner, pool, laughs, meeting people at bars together and going to party with them. Then at the end of the night fucking our brains out, and taking her back home to her live in boyfriend. 8 hours of a great time. Giving her 300 to cover "house" for the night at the club and then to show her BF "she made money at the club" to avert suspicion.

Then other times it was a fucking nightmare - a call every week asking for $80, $120, etc for this or that emergency, where she promised she would make it up to me; all so she could buy more pills or something. Nightmare!

Sure it makes sense that she get pissed at you. And she was right about it, just as right as you are to question it. You both wanted something from the other. You both EXPECTED to get what you want and to have it go your way without any kind of real agreement ahead of time on all of these loose ends that come up when you hook up.  That's exactly what men are trying to avoid when the see REAL providers.

And that's why REAL providers "make the big bucks" - as they say. Because they earn it.

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the22phoenix367 reads

No she was a new provider.  She is a stripper that got into escorting about a month before the 1st time I met her.  When I saw her she told me which club she worked at over in the Kenosha area incase I wanted to come visit her.  

I did not pick her up in the strip club.  I didn't think I said that.  I mentioned that she is also a stripper.  Some providers do that also.

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sweetandnice510 reads

I think if you cancel the day before its fine. If your not sure let her know your not sure but I think she over reacting  about it to be honest.

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