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vpmpd 6 Reviews 468 reads
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Even as a less experienced hobbyist, I am glad to see this post!

I think most of us have a great deal of respect for the women that choose to be providers, and what they do.  That respect is not only for the service we desire and appreciate, but for them as individuals.

That also means we have to respect their decision to move on should that be their choice.  We all make different choices as we journey through life's stages.  It's important to respect others doing that as well, especially in something as personal and intimate as this.

I have not been in a position yet to lose a provider I had a close bond with, but I know it will happen if I am here long enough.  As one that tends to get close to people and truly enjoy them as individuals, I am sure I would miss them and wish that some friendship could emerge removing these elements....but I know that is unlikely.  I know myself well enough that I could easily separate the two if there was a real bond there, but I don't know how often that actually happens.

In the end, I will (and believe we all should) respect the decisions, privacy, and life choices providers make, just as we expect them to do for us.

My two cents...

holdmybearclaw1269 reads

Doesn't it seem that if you can't get in touch with a provider and she doesn't seem to be around anymore that there's probably a good reason for that?

Some providers remain in this industry for a long time, whereas many of them come and go. The ones who go probably don't want to be contacted as they have moved on to different stages of their life. Some of them get married, start new careers, etc. and the last thing they need is people on TER gossiping and trying to dig up information. If you can't find the information you're looking for, she probably doesn't want you to find it. Doing amateur Sherlock Holmes investigations here has the potential to really damage someone's life.

There's a wide selection of providers here and that doesn't even include the regular or occasional visitors! If someone is gone or not responding to you, just move on.

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ClairJordan600 reads

I used to be a stripper, and I am amazed at how many of my ex stripper buddies NEVER tell anyone that they were dancers.  They even get married and keep the secret from their spouses!
They sure had no issue with self esteem or what they did when they were participating, but the "Real World" isn't always accepting of an unconventional past.
So, yes, move on, and make a new friend(s) to indulge with.
There are plenty of us!!

xoClair

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Jack Bauer504 reads

I'm glad to see that there are others with common sense on these boards.  A good number of these ladies move on and don't come back.  A few others drop out due to stalkers and crazed clients trying to harm them.  Yet, you have some idiots posting publicly about them all the time.  Guess what, this give the stalkers motivation to seek and destroy.  For once, use some common sense guys.  As always though, we'll see some dope post about some provider that retired years ago and is seeking information.  

BTW - to those hobbyists dragging ass on seeing a particular provider...Go see her already.  It is annoying seeing those posts about how a provider got away, blah blah blah.  If you are expecting her rate to go down, move on to one you can afford.
 

Posted By: holdmybearclaw
Doesn't it seem that if you can't get in touch with a provider and she doesn't seem to be around anymore that there's probably a good reason for that?  
   
 Some providers remain in this industry for a long time, whereas many of them come and go. The ones who go probably don't want to be contacted as they have moved on to different stages of their life. Some of them get married, start new careers, etc. and the last thing they need is people on TER gossiping and trying to dig up information. If you can't find the information you're looking for, she probably doesn't want you to find it. Doing amateur Sherlock Holmes investigations here has the potential to really damage someone's life.  
   
 There's a wide selection of providers here and that doesn't even include the regular or occasional visitors! If someone is gone or not responding to you, just move on.

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liamdoherty471 reads

in this experience, it is always difficult to choose.....  
Life is short, and many are here for diverse reasons.  
Spread the wealth and have some fun.

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vpmpd469 reads

Even as a less experienced hobbyist, I am glad to see this post!

I think most of us have a great deal of respect for the women that choose to be providers, and what they do.  That respect is not only for the service we desire and appreciate, but for them as individuals.

That also means we have to respect their decision to move on should that be their choice.  We all make different choices as we journey through life's stages.  It's important to respect others doing that as well, especially in something as personal and intimate as this.

I have not been in a position yet to lose a provider I had a close bond with, but I know it will happen if I am here long enough.  As one that tends to get close to people and truly enjoy them as individuals, I am sure I would miss them and wish that some friendship could emerge removing these elements....but I know that is unlikely.  I know myself well enough that I could easily separate the two if there was a real bond there, but I don't know how often that actually happens.

In the end, I will (and believe we all should) respect the decisions, privacy, and life choices providers make, just as we expect them to do for us.

My two cents...

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CubbieFan2393 reads

Posted By: vpmpd
Even as a less experienced hobbyist, I am glad to see this post!  
   
 I think most of us have a great deal of respect for the women that choose to be providers, and what they do.  That respect is not only for the service we desire and appreciate, but for them as individuals.  
   
 That also means we have to respect their decision to move on should that be their choice.  We all make different choices as we journey through life's stages.  It's important to respect others doing that as well, especially in something as personal and intimate as this.  
   
 I have not been in a position yet to lose a provider I had a close bond with, but I know it will happen if I am here long enough.  As one that tends to get close to people and truly enjoy them as individuals, I am sure I would miss them and wish that some friendship could emerge removing these elements....but I know that is unlikely.  I know myself well enough that I could easily separate the two if there was a real bond there, but I don't know how often that actually happens.  
   
 In the end, I will (and believe we all should) respect the decisions, privacy, and life choices providers make, just as we expect them to do for us.  
   
 My two cents...

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