In a recent thread, MagnumDawg brought up a good reason on why ladies on a TDL are passed up.  I'd like to expand on the topic.

1) Seeing the ladies in person before booking a session.  This for me is the biggest benefit of a MnG.  One can see how a lady looks w/o the photoshop nonsense.  Some ladies look very different and I take them off the list.  Others look so much better in person and I consider them for the future.

2) The provider's attitude at the MnG.  For the most part, I have had pleasant conversations with ladies at the MnG.  However, some ladies shoot themselves in the foot with how they behave at a party.  There have been some that act so high and mighty.  They act like they are better than you and act like snobs.  Get over yourself princess.

With some ladies, they decide to get very drunk or high and then act like complete idiots.  There is nothing wrong with a few drinks, but acting like a drunk club girl will turn off a number of guys.

The ladies that act classy and converse with a number of people always gain fans at the MnG.

3) If you're going to act like attending a MnG is a burden to you, don't attend in the first place.  We'll notice right away that you look bothered being there.  Stay home or in your hotel.  

4) As for the guys, trying to play grab ass with every lady is not going to win you friends.  Also, don't try to monopolize the time with one lady.  A good number of your fellow hobbyists want to meet her too.

5) If you can't hold your liquor, don't drink.  Being obnoxious or rude will get you banned from future MnG.

I've never attended a MnG for my own personal reasons... but what CTP has said is sure worth repeating.  Providers, you should use these as a marketing tool.  Gents... you should use these as a chance to see in person, the woman you are looking to book with.

Have fun and a relax... but don't get stupid or cop an attitude - this applies to both sides.

Point 1: I absolutely agree. At one M&G I met a classy mature lady who gave me one of the best experiences of my hobbying career. Were it not for the M&G, I never would have seen her. Only conflicts between my schedule and her visits have kept me from seeing her again, but I shall.

Point 5: One lady I might have seen (she was highly recommended by a mutual friend) had a few too many and wound up almost repulsing me rather than being attractive to me. She showed no class whatsoever.

Point 4: I like physical contact as much as anyone, but I let the lady set the pace. I have received exciting DFKs at M&Gs, but always initiated by the lady. And at M&Gs, they never went any farther. With others, physical contact was returned in kind, always subtly.

Always remember, you are in a public setting, not a private session.

I've been to some Chicago ones where the attendance was from 20 to 100 people.

was how I found a couple of favorites. I had me eye on one for a while and meeting her completed the deal. I met another that I had ever heard of and we ended up having a great time in Vegas a few months later.

CTP makes some good points and they pretty much sum up the way I view these social events.

fyi..angela petite has one scheduled for may 2nd..everyone is welcome..the list is growing..

Hi,

... IMHO!!! In all the years I've been hobbying, I've met some wonderful ladies through  reading reviews & conversing through e-mail contacts!!! Case In point, There was a women from Minnesota who attended Angela's last M&G!! I had set up an appt; w/ her a month earlier, but due to a snowstorm she was unable to travel!! She e-mailed saying she was in town for the M&G & was going to be at a hotel for a day!! Would I be interested in seeing her?? I had scheduled w/ another woman & could not see her on this trip!! My point is I did not attend the M&G to see her, because I did my due diligence, by reading her reviews & conversing w/ her through e-mails from the comfort of home!! I eventually will see her!!

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That's a good observation too Cubbie. Before meet & greets the back and forth of email exchanges
told alot about a person by how one expresses him/her self. Reviews tell you more too!

I've traveled so much and attended many both posted on the boards, and those not posted . I met some
very interesting and unique fun people.

I do prefer the more mellow kind of meets , nothing loud with drunk chicks and guys running around
commenting on how they want a freebie .


So far my favorite meet & greet hosts are bond007  of L.A. and Radar of CT meet & greets. I hope Radar comes back to host but I know his substitute will keep things in order.

Hoping to travel to L.A. this month but if not, soon.

Nice post!

Angela

I plan on attending Paige's M&G in a few weeks and I found myself curious about what the vibe/set is like. This really puts things in perspective! Thanks. I hope to see some of you there!

I am mostly UTR.  However I have attended a couple M&G's.  I find them a great way to put a live face and personality to a staged picture.  I met some wonderful ladies that just radiated with sex appeal, class and just plain down to earth.  A few I met I wish I could meet on a more personal level after sharing a few moments with.  I have to find more time to attend more and meet privately with some.  Thank you all for having these to bring us together.

to see if i should hide in the back seat of their cars and attack them on the way home.  I have YET had any of those men return to a meet and greet cause now i have kidnapped them for my cock harem in my basement. But hey.. Always room for ONE more huge cock down there! Alas i wont be at Paiges meet and greet cause i will be out of town... But I will be at her next and dont say i didnt warn ya! ;P

I'm really bummed that I can't make this one. But making sure that I don't miss the next one!

Just curious if any other hobbyists feel like me:  concerned you might meet someone from your own "other" world, a neighbor, friend of a friend, acquaintance, someone like that.

I introduced myself to her and her first words to me as she shook my hand were, "Do you like to fuck hard???"  Seconds later she stopped shaking my hand, stepped forward and grabbed my crotch and said, "Apparently you do  . . . ."

Now, THAT is the way to meet a babe!

There truly is only one BeBedoll.  Chicago, you got her and be very thankful . . . . .

It happened to me. We were surprised initially, but just accepted it as fact. After all, who were we going to tell?

I mean you guys are obviously both there for the same reason. Why not just laugh about it and move on? It shouldn't be threatening at all, but I suppose some don't see it that way.

You guys make a lot of sense.  It does seem silly to worry about running into someone you know in your real life because, as you say, it's a stalemate with no bad ending.  So, I guess I'll see you there!

1.  There is only so much time and so many people to meet or catch up with, so try not to get sucked into a cluster of a few people no matter how much you are clicking - you have got to work the room or guys will feel left out and probably not be interested in seeing you.  The same goes with guys - try not to glom onto just one girl - no matter how fucking amazing I am

2.  Do NOT forget to meet and/or catch up with your fellow providers.  They are the nicest chicks so if your new, definitely make an attempt to chat and get to know us.  Who knows, you could find a new doubles partner or a new good friend!  Plus, if you run out of lipgloss and you like a girl just kiss her for a touch up

3.  This is crucial - DO NOT BE LATE!!!  Hahaha!

4.  Try not to forget your phone or any clothes.  It's a pain in the ass...

XXX-Giselle

True, Giselle.  Kwasi probably has a couple of your phones and half of your skirts at his place.  No truth to the rumor that he looks pretty good in most of your skirts, lol!

Posted By: giselle69

1.  There is only so much time and so many people to meet or catch up with, so try not to get sucked into a cluster of a few people no matter how much you are clicking - you have got to work the room or guys will feel left out and probably not be interested in seeing you.  The same goes with guys - try not to glom onto just one girl - no matter how fucking amazing I am

2.  Do NOT forget to meet and/or catch up with your fellow providers.  They are the nicest chicks so if your new, definitely make an attempt to chat and get to know us.  Who knows, you could find a new doubles partner or a new good friend!  Plus, if you run out of lipgloss and you like a girl just kiss her for a touch up

3.  This is crucial - DO NOT BE LATE!!!  Hahaha!

4.  Try not to forget your phone or any clothes.  It's a pain in the ass...

XXX-Giselle

Run into my ex at one of M&Gs i attended

He just happened to be at the venue and I ended up being outed.  So no more M&Gs for me.

will we be seeing you at the M&G next Wednesday?

Pretty please!!!

XXX-Giselle

would never fit me!!!!!! lol

Not around for the M&G.  Sorry, hope to see you some other place, some other time . . .

So how does one get invited to a MnG and who are common organizers? It sounds like a
great time saver for all the research necessary for hobbyists.