I've been doing mostly escort appointments during my hobby career.  During which, I learned something about myself: I can't really enjoy an appointment without DFK.  It has a strong "medical procedure" feel to it somehow.  I've also toyed with the idea of trying a massage, but never took the plunge.  Now, do *those* normally include DFK, or are they just that: a massage?  (Along with however else the provider chooses to end the appointment.)  If not, then I'm not sure if it's my cup of tea; it'd be very similar to banal massage therapy places.

Now, my past civvie girlfriends gave me massages that included DFK, and I loved it!  (They often turned into FS later.)  But that's obviously not the same thing.