on a website? Pictures? flash or no flash? what is it that gets your eye?
I am looking for input so I can relate it to my site, I feel like its a little humdrum, and want to know what would liven it up, so I need data.


Cecilia

No MUSIC Please!  IMHO
Other than that.....have at it..
DS

No music, as mentioned.

No Flash, please. I know that a lot of providers like the cute things you can do with it, but a lot of people use iPads and iPhones now. Flash just means you're losing potential clients since they can't see your site.

Also, please give us decent resolution pictures. Thumbnails only are irritating. I don't mind if you obscure your identity, but in 2012, it's easy to have a decent pic quality.

Beyond that, I look for personal sites. Share a little about yourself and don't try to sound like someone you're not. If you like to joke around a lot, don't try to hide behind a facade.

I agree about the music and the photos. There are ways to blur a face so a lady cannot be identified (I understand the need for confidentiality) while leaving enough of an image to give a general impression of a lady's looks.

Also, poses that obscure a lady's figure are red flags for me. I don't expect every lady to be a hard body, but unless a lady promotes herself as a BBW, I'd like some idea of her figure.

Originality in the "About" section gives an insight to a lady's personality and sense of humor.  Ane a little creativity goes a long way withm me.

Just my $0.02.



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I agree with those that say no flash. I'm not an iPerson (apple product user) but I use a privacy-enabled browser that doesn't have flash installed for the hobby. Flash cookies are evil and I prefer to have nothing to do with them.

I like to make sure a lady does specify her age. I'm on the low end of the age spectrum, thus I want to make sure you're someone I'd be interested in by default. Pictures (esp. when without a face) can fool you in some cases, especially with airbrushing.

On the personal side of things, have your personality stand out. Make sure your bio isn't generic (I could write about 10 'elite VIP companion' bios that say nothing about anything in about 15 minutes), and have a FAQ section. FAQ's allow you a chance to show off your personality while dealing with simple etiquette. I'm not a believer in the explicit, but writing something therein about protocol (where the envelope is placed, how you would like to be contacted, and other boring logistics stuff) makes me believe you are organized. Pepper it with humor, and we know you have a lighter side too.

I am willing to take constructive criticism.  Just don't remind me that the forum is a little lackluster and I need brand new pics in a professional setting.  I have too many cheap pictures taken by a girlfriend while bored.   Never fear for I have a photo shoot coming up soon!

I have no music, no flash and nothing irritating.  As a matter of fact, it's slightly boring except for my BIO, which I think promotes my free-spirited vibe

XXX-Giselle

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that reminds me, as I do photography too, I have tips for ladies on upcoming photo shoots that is a great time saver
hydrate well the night before a shoot, dont go out drinking the night before , as it will show up on the pictures
wear loose clothing to the shoot, it makes marks on the skin and causes a 30 min to an hr delay to wait for the marks to go away.
always bring extra clothing and let the photographer see you in it before you commit to pics in it.
( it may not look good on you, and better to let the photographer say, umm, no, not that color) then to have pics on your site that dont suit you)

I love sights that have recent and pics that are updated frequently.  Also a pet peeve is when you click on a thumbnail pic to see it larger and it opens up exactly the same size!?  Very irritating.  Better to have fewer pics that are decent sized.  Also, since I like Champagne, having a sense of what you might like to drink at our meeting is a nice touch too.  I think my handle also hints at other likes too.