A few days ago my plan 'A' didn't work out. The backup plans didn't work out either. So instead of calling it quits, I listened to the little head...

I called an agency that occasionally advertises on our board. The girl I wanted to see had a few very impressive reviews.

Here is the conversation I had with an extremely professional and courteous gentleman from the agency.

Me: Hi, this is XXX, I would like to schedule a one hour out-call appointment with YYY at ZZZ today. I'm staying at the XYZ hotel.

Him: Certainly Sir, I would be happy to set that up for you. Which city are you calling from? (Chicago, I answered.) May I please call you back in a few minutes to confirm.

3 min later

Him: Hello Mr. XXX, I just spoke with YYY and she's available. May I please have the spelling of your first/last name, the year you were born and your hotel room number. (I provided the requested info). Sir, I'll call you in your hotel room 10 min before she arrives, please be there. Thank you for calling.

AND THAT WAS IT!!!!!!

I couldn't believe the verification process. Scary!!!! I even considered canceling, but the little head...

Lucky, everything worked out well. I received the call in my hotel room as promised, an extremely beautiful and sweet girl showed up right on time and I we had fun.

I told the girl about the verification process. I don't think she got the point.

If you want more detailed info, please contact me via PM.

What name did you give him?  H-A-R-O-L-D-B-A-H-L-S?

their own safely, they don't care about yours.  

-- Modified on 3/31/2011 12:35:08 PM

Name and year of birth must be in some database.

giove me a break tha tis not verification process anyone cantake a name that is listed and use it! I don't think you guys realize what could of happened!
Few weeks back a guy had just about same verification the pretty girl came in, introduced herself went down to the car on the pretense of forgetting her some stuff but guess who came back up?
Yep a big guy with a gun who took the man for a ride to his ATM! He is lucky and so is Djtb!

The info you gave can be verified pretty quickly against online databases. Real name and birth year is pretty much all you need to look someone up and with the right connections, verifying you as a legit hobbyist shouldn't take very long. Still, this seems way too easy...

Much scarier is a provider arriving and then leaving for a short time. Seems like every time a provider leaves right after arriving, something bad happens. Heard stories about pimps being right outside the door and pushing their way in, provider going back down and bringing the pimp up, robberies, beatings. It seems like the guys need to be much more aware of their surroundings when a provider you don't know arrives. Not sure how to do this inconspicuously without sticking your head out the door but a good rule of thumb would be if she leaves quickly, lock the door behind her and don't look back.

Never really thought about outcall safety from the guy's perspective but this might be a good time to start thinking about it...

yes a name can be verified by just name and birthdate and its also very easy to pick a name from the database and use it for your own, is my point!
If the reputable girls were to use just that type of verification we would all be in trouble more so than not!

-- Modified on 3/31/2011 7:19:46 PM

Am I missing something?  What public database contains legal names and birthdates of people?  If you don't want to divulge it on the board, PM me.

When I verify a guy, I'm looking for 2 things:

1. Is he safe for me to see?
2. Is he LE?

A name and phone number does not answer either one of these questions.