I tried scheduling with this local provider and she asked for the following. This is beyond verfication and if in the wrong hands could be trouble.  

1/send  any (name&phone number)of references you have with previous providers .
2/photo of business card, any prove of work, current occupation, LinkedIn,(with your name on it )  
3/send the photo of your I.D to verify yourself for the first time we meet only  
(Please cover only I.D number )  
❣️Everything is kept private and is only use to confirm the safety and legitimacy of the client)

I told her I have 4 recent reputable providers  that she  can contact  which will know who I am and instantly give her a thumbs up. Her response is below.  

+1502512**** - My house my rules hun , if you’re not feel comfortable , no problem  
Have a good night .

Don't get suckered in. Then she has all your info and you have Diddley.  What if she is a whack job and things turn vindictive? You will be the loser... Protect yourself.

methods find someone who will screen you with via references only.
Many providers state their screening requirements on ads and/or websites.
Every lady has their screening methods and what she asks for is not really beyond verification.  
I myself do not ask for all of what she requested but it is certainly her choice to ask for screening info for her safety.
If she asked for the above screening info why would you respond and say you have 4 references she can contact? If you are not willing to provide what she asks move on...and copying the text to show it here is a little petty in my opinion.
Just my .02

Just find someone with the same boundaries as you. She was actually very nice - some people would have torn you a new one, others would have just put your email in DNS and blocked you.

At least she responded.

You need to let go of the fact that the world does not revolve around you.

Is that there are many different people involved with many different levels of comfort. Thus, as some of the other posts have said, you just need to find providers who are willing to accept what you are willing to offer...which applies to pretty much all aspects of the encounter.  

Find your comfort level and then find providers who are similar.  

We try to be as flexible as we can without leaving our comfort level and would encourage everyone (on both sides of the hobby) to do the same. It will allow things to start out on the right foot and develop from there

xo
Tori & Nick

any girl that wont accept either 2 reputable reference  OR  TER account PM from someone with white lists  or P411 with Okays is a disaster waiting to happen.     why does she need all that personal info but wont share hers.     Hi my name is Ted .. and i go to law school ..and here is my law school ID card ... and now you will see me ?   big mistake  

having all that personal info doesnt help ... ok lets say the guy turns out to be a pyscho and beats the girl up .. then what ?  she calls police ?  yeah .. Hi i am a hooker and he didnt like the way i gave him a BBBJ .....    the reputable biz guy with the business card and ID says, hey she is just mad i didn't give her more money.  i guess her boyfriend pimp beat her up because of that.         now whom are they going to believe

Then she can just change her name and move on lol.......

You sound fun.

I mean, you have lots of whitelists but look at your post.  

Everyone knows p411 ok's are not safe - hell the old owner used to tell us not to rely on just them and lots of gals over the years got the wrong kind of silver bracelets from taking ok's.  And if you can't figure out how that is a thing that happens, maybe you shouldn't be giving advice.

Second, whitelists mean nothing - I know more than one provider from when it was a more accepted form of verification that were were threatened with bad reviews if they didn't whitelist.

And hey it's a lot easier for a guy to beat the shit out of a gal when she doesn't have his real info lmfao.  You have absolutely no idea how the provider end works.

I read here once before a provider said 'if you aren't slinging pussy for a living, don't tell us how to cause you don't know what is really involved.'