Let's get the usual out of the way:  
 Yes it's an alias because I am ducking the ISO flame  
 No, I cannot figure this out from a search because of how many times "S&M" has been incorrectly used.  
 Yes, I am a VIP member and have reviews.  
 It's in this thread because FS is involved.  
   
 I like FS with bondage and would like a petite (under 5'2'' 110 lbs) that would be comfortable with tying me to the bed and doing some face slapping and chocking while including FS.  
   
 Thank you all for recommendations.