I just don't get its, why do you guys give girls your ter handle?  What good can come of it?  The only way I see it would benefit you is if you are a suck ass and give every girl a 10/10 and they know they can just show up and get that from you.  Ive seen dozens of tales of woe over giving girls your handle and no stories I can remember where it benefited the hobbiest at all.    When I wrote reviews I always waited a length of time before writing a review and tried  my best to keep them from identifying me from the review.

I've been one of the guys that out of ignorance, has given it up.  Boy did it come back an haunt me.  But you guys seem to forget that all of us, (ME), are not as knowledgeable about the proper procedures that can help us.  So, if you got a better way, than share it, and also, pretend I'm a 6 year old and talk slowly to me.

Just send them your verification info w/o including your handle name.  How hard can that be?!?

...if a client is skittish about verification but has been white-listed by other providers that I can contact. I honestly don't read the reviews that clients gave written beforehand. I deliver the same level of service regardless of the client's past reviews.

I so agree!! Some Hobbyists are very skittish and it makes us nervous. I do not look at the reviews. Just make sure they are legit.

.......I posted on a regional board asking if any ladies were avail, setting forth my preferences, and fully admitting that I was busy and traveling, etc etc

To be: screened, also so I can get an idea of what you like and are into so your session is custom made and not a template experience. Also to see if we would get on well since many of you can't be bothered to read our websites even if the gal, like me, keeps it to a three sentence paragraph.
For instance someone asked me for a session, I read his reviews and saw that he was ALL about the anal.
I lean in the polar opposite direction. He would have wasted his money and my time. Then I get a bad review because you're a tard? NO THANKS If all your reviews are suck ass mean, guess what? The problem is you and I don't want to be bothered.

Oh my god Sophia that was awesome!

If a client says he is a member of TER and they are using that as a reference then they NEED to PM our agency from that TER handle in order to get verified.

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I give mine out and many of my "dates" have used them to see what I like, I have had some real mind blowing times because I did. I researched them so turnabout is fair play...  

Thanks for the wake up call. I'll probably be requesting those when I go to NYC next week. One I particularly want to steer clear of.

A 2yr old would be easier to deal with, than this immature/time wasting/Moron!!.

I agree with you srs.  I have has a few ladies that have read my reviews beforehand and have used them to help identify what I like and don't like.  This has always paid off for both me and the provider.

puzzling indeed besides most girls do not take whitelists and still require all other info

HAHA!  I love the attitude and I got a great laugh out of your post, but if I can just present a more reasonable "or not to be" reply it would go something like this...... and this is coming from someone who shares my TER handle if requested........

Then you probably shouldn't use TER as a screening method!

After 8 years here, this is my only screening method.