When I was in graduate school I met a lady who eventually became my dominant. She was a bisexual woman in a relationship with another woman and she saw me on the side. We met up about once a week or once every other week to have some fun. We also use to talk on the phone once or twice a week. It wasn't my first encounter submitting to a woman, but it was my first long term relationship being a bottom to a woman. Yet, for reasons beyond our control, it had to end after a little over two years.

Years later I thought I would actively seek a similar relationship. I found a dominant women via a BDSM dating site, but it only lasted two or three months. It wasn't what I was looking for at all. She would call me every day and I even moved in with her the last month. She was also having sex with me everyday. I like having sex with women (depending on the activity), but not everyday.

About a year after that relationship went south I was at a munch talking to a submissive man who was in a relationship with a dominant woman. He told me that the woman he was bottoming for he saw regularly when she was a pro-dom. After she retired she kept some of the lifestyle submissives and was still active in the BDSM community. He told me that some professionals do having some personal submissives and seeking one out might work for me. I thought I would take his advice and give it a try.

I find one after looking around in various websites that seemed very compatible to me. I was forthcoming with my intent to seek out being her personal submissive from the very beginning. She agreed to it and I sessioned with her at least every four weeks. After about fourteen months of doing this we agreed it wasn't working out and we parted ways.

A few months down the road I thought I would seek out an escort. I haven't had sex with a woman in about three years. (I should add that I had been sexual active with men, which I actually prefer over women.) I found one on a website and hooked up with her for a two hour session. It was a vanilla session, which was what I wanted. That was my first vanilla encounter with a woman. Furthermore, it was the first time I ever had vaginal intercourse with a woman. I have to admit, I didn't care for it very much at all. In fact, I don't care for topping a man either.

A few months later I thought I would try to find a threesome with a man and a woman. I had threesome with two men before (on more then one occasion), but never with a woman in the picture. I have had sex with a man while a woman watched, but this time I wanted her to be actively a part of it. I couldn't find exactly what I was looking for, but I did manage to find a provider on here that offered BDSM along with other activities.

I am wondering, with all that being said, are there long term relationships between an escort and her client? Is there any friendships that develop between the escort and client beyond just the service that is given?

I'm asking because I'm thinking I would like to have a long term relationship (meaning a serious of sessions) with the person I met her. I also wouldn't mind if it developed further as well, meaning friendship and/or collared submission. Yet, I'm not sure if this is something that is typical of escorts.

I also want to add that I was a rent boy myself off and on for about four or five years. It actually started when I was in the military and into when I was an undergraduate in college. This was all before the internet became very popular as well. Based on my experience with the men I serviced none of them expressed an interest in anything beyond sex. Yet, I have seen a number of them more then once and some of them use to actively search me out.