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There's nothing you can do
Unfortunately, there's nothing you can do when you don't have chemistry. It either works or it doesn't.
I pridefully try and make sure everyone is happy when with me AND afterwards, I totally understand "not liking to waste money"
But when there is no chemistry, and when youre looking for something that wont ever be there with a provider, what is a lady to do? Besides try to make it work.
First, what do you mean happy AFTER? Isn't that pretty much beyond your control?
Are you worried about not satisfying this client or it is uncomfortable to see him? Either way, I don't think there's anything wrong with tactfully ending the relationship. I had it happen to me... actually with the very first provider I saw LOL. It was unpleasant but I survived without serious lasting damage and actually I learned some good lessons from the experience. She sent me an email saying she didn't think we were a good fit and asking me not to contact her further. I honored her request and moved on. If this guy has a little maturity let's hope he does the same. After all, if there is really something he is seeking that you can't or won't provide it is better for him to continue his search elsewhere. My 2 cents... keep the change and hang tuff.
What I mean by happy afterwards, is being happy with our time spent together that you won’t go out your way to say or write a bad review on how our time was spent. I like to leave good impressions on anyone who books to see me, because like some would say. “Hard earned money is being spent” . Don’t anyone to feel like they didn’t get their money worth with anything, because that’s a bitter taste that’s in my mouth. But one thing I do is open my mouth and keep it real and not just on Yelp or through text.
I’m never worried or uncomfortable, it’s just that this person told me one thing he wanted in my face, but wrote and contradicted himself in his horrible review he wrote after seeing me one time. But the crazy thing is that he never told me he had a TER. I use And pay for TER EACH MONTH now, so I can read into what a future client would like. And talk back and forth with anyone on here. This person never stated he had one because based on his reviews he’s never happy with anyone. Had I seen that, I would have read into his reviews and pin-pointed on the positives and seen the goods and the bass so he wouldn’t have an experience like that ever again.
Or not went out my way to meet him.
Having seen you before i really can't understand someone not enjoying being with you. Besides your provider skills are 10's across the board you are very cool to hang out with i still remember the conversation we had after when i gave you a ride to gold coast to shop. I understand sometimes things just don't live up to what you build up in your mind, but to blame another person is unrealistic. Everything is out there your website is you and the reviews speak for them selfs.
Thank you baby. Miss you. But I don’t understand it either. But the line “ a closed mouth don’t get fed is very well true” . When you’re in a industry where all guys don’t like the same thing, you’re playing a guessing game and trying to get a feel for what someone likes. But when someone tells you one thing they want and wants you to play a guessing game to get the rest of the riddle , it makes it hard to have chemistry. And for them to have a GREAT TIME!
Just read the review in question, and scrolled through your other stellar reviews. My advice: don't give another moment's thought to the extreme outlier review and continue to rock your clients' worlds as your reviews indicate you have been doing all along. Life is too short to let one malcontent get you down.
Unfortunately, there's nothing you can do when you don't have chemistry. It either works or it doesn't.
You're absolutely correct, nothing you can do and like another said, Move on! haha
Every one isn't going to like you, and it used to get me VERY VERY upset and worked up. Then one day I said to myself, I am not pizza- everyone isn't going to like me. And, I had to tell myself that for the most part the gents that see me have a good time, and that every once and a while you're going to have someone who just doesn't connect with you. I also stopped paying such close attention to my scores and my reviews. When I do, I tend to get really anxious about pleasing my guests, and it makes me too nervous. I have anxiety as it is, so its just better for me to not think about that stuff, and be myself.
I got so upset. But you're right. I do know everyone isn't going to like me, I knew that way before I got into the game. And I'm perfectly fine with that. But i did think that everyone I met, I would have a connection with. haha, I'm slowly starting to realize that isn't true AT ALL !
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Only thing you can do. lol
You can please all of the people some of the time and you can please some of the people all of the time, but you can’t please all of the people all of the time.
...thanks for the clichés boy...
Ok so once upon a time ago me and some guys I was cool with went to a gentleman club. I got a few private dances from some ladies i thought were my type and felt like i was having a really good time. I tend to enjoy being romanced by a woman and feeling HER connection with me. It's more than just her skills as a lover physically, but the way she makes me think mentally before, during, and after our encounter. Then if she's really nice I will connect with her on some type of emotional level in the same fashion. Long story short I get approached by several other ladies which I'd expect because of the environment, but it was later revealed that I was an easy client. To the point that she was upset I wasn't feeling the same attraction to her as I had felt with other women that evening.
My point here is I am extremely flattered when a woman takes an interest in ME and wishes to offer me a mind blowing connection but it's gotta be authentic. If it's obvious the MOVES and ADVANCES made towards my lustful desires are from a previous encounter/connection I had with another Lady then that connection not only won't be the same because the exact elements are not duplicatable, but I may actually be turned off by that. Not because she's not putting forth the effort to please me, but because she has so little of an interest in ME that she has to duplicate impressions from a connection I had with a totally different subject without bothering to attempt at making one of her own.
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