Any other provider or hobby bobby ever see a client/provider for free after a few times. Maybe the sex is good or the connection is there. I've done this a few times but I'm wondering if other people do this to.

No. Not me. And for the ladies I see I respect them too much to ask.  

One provider calls me on ocassion and for one hour I get as many hours as I want.  I have been seeing her for years.  Of course, I am an older guy so extra hours usually means we just hang out.  

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There was an instant connection I had never had with a provider and after 3rd or 4th visit, she wanted to go out but didn't want to charge me. She still needed to pay her bills so I figured out ways to help without making her uncomfortable. We have been in an exclusive unconventional relationship for the last 3 years. Idk if we ever establish a relationship if she still treated me as a client. Maybe still but don't know

Had an ATF who's no longer in the business.  We would call for drinks and dinners. Spent time at her home.. Miss her!

She gave up the biz, then kept seeing a few of her ATF's and then it was just me. First for two bills, then less until it was just to be together. It evolved, so to speak, in this way. Now, she changed jobs and we hardly see each other any more. I really miss her because she is so girl next door and really cool about just sex for play and no pay. Oh well, life is short. Go with the flow.

I'll ask this of anyone who has responded.  Did you go bareback when it wasn't a paid engagement?

If your asking me, no. But I'm not going to give you the answer that you are going to expect. There are people who ask, but I immediately reply with no. But last year I had a really good connection with a 'client' and we started having sex unprotected of course for me if someone reads my TER it clearly says I use protection for everything. But do you ever think that hookers are the cleanest of them all with  regularly protecting themselves with contraceptives, monthly clinic check ups and so on. To wrap up what I'm saying here is sometimes your in the heat of the moment and are having a lil fun. Maybe that's the 21 yr old in me but I wouldn't  go doing that with just any hobby bobby. Protected sex fucking fucks it feels like nothing but a plastic wrapped hot dog, so once in a while when you wanna feel the real hot beef injection it's not a crime. But in this sort of thing I think Bareback should always be out of the question.

I will spend more time with a client if I have nothing to do or if I connect with them.

I am currently seeing a hooker now that stopped being business (IOW, I stopped paying her) a few months ago.

Quite the smooth man grabbing all those ladies. Hahah. But I always felt it was rare. I was great friends with a client for two years and we would spend literally everyday together. But I feel most of these 'special' relationships simmer out eventually. I go on real unpaid dates with plenty of my clients 'I feel like a total bitch charging every little thing' plus I love steak and brews so we all win but, dating clients made me come to realize that men do look at you how they met you. I rather meet some guy at the park go on a few dates and he will never know what I do. The best thing of escorting is quitting when ever you want for love, personal reasons, etc.

Any of the ladies you have seen that you actually feel something with, just ask if maybe she would like to hang-out, go to a show, etc. Thats when you work your magic! But if your more of the Higher-Class dude that spends 500+ on this ladies chances of a free time are unlikely.

I am a whore mongering pig, I make no bones about it and don't try to hide it from anyone. What I am NOT, is a hypocrite.  That might be the reason I feel perfectly comfortable dating hookers. I am not out to change or rescue anyone, I just try to enjoy the moment.

It probably works out for you because you seem extremely open-minded. And thats a awesome thing. Im glad to hear on this bored not everyone thinks like a robot.

Some requests for OTC time come off as asking for "free time" other times it's just an invitation to get a bite. The bigger and more "date like" you make it, the more she is going to feel like she has to be "on" during your whole time together. and whether she is sucking your dick, or having a cup of coffee, if she feels the need to put on a act for you, she needs to get paid for that time.

Apparently I'm not interesting enough, attractive enough or a good enough lover.  Possible I fail at all three. :

In reality, it means he won't see you any more unless you see him for free, but even then......

......he IS gonna find another reason to withdraw himself, just like he withdrew from you his business; and move on to another incredibly awesome meal.  While he is hanging out with you unconditionally, he still is going to pursue what new out there for his business. Here, they also call it "wining the lottery." I'm sure he is a great lover and handsome, and all that, and he deserves an unconditional love like everyone else; the question is: can you afford to give it, emotionally, physically, and financially?

Its not always about money jezzz. If he find another escort awesome, if I get to be around a nice, handsome, good-slaying fella and have some fun, who cares he is paying some other girl. There plenty of clients to go around for all of us. Cheers!

That may be true. I found that free ended up being a lot more expensive. LOL

Dude/Lady come on man? Don't you have anything better to do then be negative on a post. Geezzz!

Just a thought, kind of tangential to the subject. I talked to another hobbyist once who was interested in dating his ATF. In retrospect I should have told him and not kept my mouth shut - bad idea.

I had a provider who was my ATF who after a few visits begged me for a free fuck, of course i came and she kept texting me and i came whenever i had no work. All was great until about a month later when she started bitching and yelling at me for not paying her for "all she done for me" it was mutual and a great fuck i visited one more time after that fight for a fee, but she disappeared ever since.

Very true it never last long, but unless your looking for a LTR or LTF than I don't recommend it haha but for a fun lil summertime fling. Why not!