NOTE: Please read the note at the bottom before you respond.

I'm in search of a woman who is skilled in the sensuous arts of seduction. There are a lot of wonderful ladies who have the full repertoire, the full alphabet of skills. The TER scoring system favors measuring the ladies "alphabet" of skills. The sensuous seduction in a single brief meeting is a skill lot harder than the alphabet, but I've met some who have mastered it and it is fantastic, memorable. I also realize that I'm part of creating that environment. I bring wine, we toast each other. I may bring a small gift. We celebrate it. We talk we flirt, We take our time and the rest is amazing. I know some ladies here just don't have the patience for that. but some do.

I'm searching for a woman who knows seduction. Some clearly have it and some outstanding providers, just don't.

Who do you think "gets it"? I'm sure that some ladies feel like they have that skill and they can freely volunteer that here. I'm also curious who you guys think has that skill.

PS: Lets cover a few inevitable responses here first:
Someone will patiently explain to me that "This is not match.com" and I'm "looking for the wrong thing". I know what I'm doing. I'm not trying to pick up a ladies, but I love the brief illusion of that seduction and some providers brilliantly have accomplished that with me. (Piper, Natalie Chase, Veronica Chase)

I know there are inevitably a few people who when they read a post like this will be tell me  
"Go read some reviews" (I have read a lot of them). I have been on this board a long time. What I'm looking for is hard to cipher from a review.

I really appreciate the insights and comments of the people here on this board.

Thank yo

A glance from across the room where eyes meet, holding a gaze deeper than an embrace.  

Reaching between my thighs and adorning my neck with the clean, natural scent of my wet cunt before a date.  

Moving to each others' rhythms when walking, treating the rhythms of conversation as music.

The moment when a woman first takes her hair down, looking like she stepped out of a Waterhouse painting.  

And so much more...

This ISO is specific to something that isn't generally showcased in a review... and if it is, it's most likely few and far between. However, men who tend to book longer dates have probably gotten to see this side of some of the ladies, which may help you in your search through reviewers. A lot of guys who have VIP would be happy to share their experiences with you.  

Perhaps check out a few ladies in the area who lean more toward the longer timeframes in their rate structures, then find the guys who have seen those and other ladies for longer time periods and inquire for details. The patience you are looking for would be easier to find in a woman who generally encourages longer dates. I'm assuming she will be more patient with the time if she actually prefers more time with her mates.  

Also, over the course of an hour, there's not much time for the type of seduction you're talking about IMO. Another reason to look for those who enjoy longer time frames. I would suggest a good chunk of time with her so she can watch your mannerisms, draw information from you as well as body language, communication style, etc. to 'learn' you enough to know how to seduce you the best way possible. Delaying, watching, and learning her prey is a part of the attack. An animal that simply pounces randomly without knowing her catch - well - many guys would love it for a quick lay, but not for what you're talking about.  

We've spent a lot of time on seducing you over the internet, you are looking for that process in person too.

Good luck! xoxoxo


-- Modified on 6/15/2014 10:49:14 PM

Although I certainly have also mastered the alphabet as well. It is true as you have pointed out that the "dance" is crucial.

Every person's approach to intimacy really varied quite a bit. Some people (or providers) may be more passive, and some men definitely love that. I may be assuming wrong, but those same men seem to also simply enjoy the novelty of encountering different providers, as opposed to looking for a more rounded, deeper experience on multiple levels.

I understand what  you are looking for. For me, active initiation and seduction is what really makes for a fulfilling visit and long-standing connection - something I very much prefer.  

I don't think it sounds like you are looking for a girlfriend, or that you're trying to use this site like match.com. I think you are a person who wants to invest in a very enjoyable experience. That requires a connection on multiple levels instead of just physical.

Clearly, this is something I put some thought into regularly. If you would like to discuss more and see if we mesh well, PM me!

Nice pic on the board today. Wow!

You described me perfectly. I think that getting into someones mind and soul is an important part of the experience. Once you start there...gazing into eyes, coy smiles, sharing conversation....things progress so naturally!  

There is something to be said about the courtesan experience....much more in depth than a standard, walk in, get off and get out.

If your looking for tantra, which I take pride in my craft please private message me. Good luck in your search.
Alyssa