Ladies, what gives you your best Os?  If you have a clear preference, do you tell your partners about it?  Do you encourage your partners to make it happen that way?

Funny, ready to have a good time, not rushing me to bend me over and feels more naturally like a boyfriend.  That is how I get a better O.  Though there is something to be said about familiar.  I have bast guests from 5-10yrs ago that can have me off almost as soon as we hit the sheets.  Why?  Because I am so comfortable with them it comes more naturally.