Was with my ATF provider, (no longer now), when after a brief conversation during our meeting, she said something that hurt both my ego and my feelings.  To her credit, she new she had screwed up, and she tried to apologize but the damage had been done.  Probably my fault, because I've seen here so often, 3 or 4 times a month, I allowed the line between client and provider to become blurred.  So now I'm gone.

But in my defense I was usually about 10 seconds away from cumming. There's a weird curve wherein the closer I get to orgasm the stupider I become. Heh.

but, in person, it's even harder to take back.  Generally best just to move on...

I've never met anyone in rural areas, but I always think about how would and should we behave and what to say and what not to say and how, without creating any awkwardness, affecting our lives, or hurting business and hobby.

but you can apologize and explain where the words came from and why they were wrong. You can also say what you think now that you realize your mistake.

EVERYONE says things they wish they hadn't. Communication is very powerful, and errors in this area are usually the reason relationships and friendships fail in all walks of life.

A guy who was definitely very small asked me, precisely, how he measured up.

When a guy asks you that question it's like a woman asking "does this make me look fat"?

Pretty much everybody thinks they're above average in everything. There was a study of people hospitalized after automobile accidents for which they were at fault. Something like 80% thought they were above average drivers. I never thought about someone with a small, er, tool thinking he was above average. I would have thought he would brag about being great at technique. But maybe not.

Awesome!

Not your first............oops ;0