I've been gone a while from this.  
   
 I'm trying to find someone I can banter/email a bit before hand to sort of break the initial awkwardness when we first meet. I'm looking for caucasian, over 28, and preferably not all tatted up. Sort of the athletic/slim girl next door that you have naughty thoughts about.  
   
 Perhaps I'm looking for a needle in a haystack but I've had this before and turned into great encounters on a regular basis when I'm in Chicago. However I can't seem to locate her now after the time I've been away.