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MissErinBlack See my TER Reviews 375 reads
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...and for discussing things that can clearly be discussed within the contents of a review.  If a provider sucks, smells bad, is a thief, etc, then please report it in the context of a review.  I encourage reviews, really I do.  But you can't review a NCNS. So, what's a dude to do?

Post about it. Post "hey, I had a NCNS. If anyone wants to know who it was, pm me".  

Or, you could post about it on hobbyist/reviewer only board and avoid backlash from providers.  

We disagree about how to handle NCNS providers, souperman. I get it. And it's okay to disagree.  If you have another solution, I'd actually be happy to hear it.

nefan771388 reads

Not a good day for me today.  A week ago I made an appointment with a provider.  This provider was supposed to be my dream girl.  The perfect ten.   I was supposed to see her today at 1 pm.  She told me to text her on Saturday, and I did.  She then said she would email me the data I need for our date.  Alas today no information.  At 1230 I get a text that her plans have changed and she couldn't see me as scheduled.  I was hooked, I should have walked.  I didn't.  She says I can see her downtown at 6.  Like a fool I drive downtown, pay $14 to park, walk 1/2 a mile and find myself in a 4 star hotel lobby.  She tells me she isn't ready, and will be ready at 6:30.  I left at 7.  

Now I could be mad at this, but actually I consider myself lucky.  I didn't get arrested, I'm not dead, and for the first time, I saw the mag mile.  

But what does bother me is that for the first time I was made to feel unworthy of a provider's time.  I am a hard working guy, work more than my fair share of hours.  I know that I am not Bradley Cooper, nor built like Peter North.  I am the band geek, the nerd.  This was supposed to be my date with the cheerleader.  I live in the far south suburbs, and today's journey sucked.  

So to her, I will once again wish you the best.  You cat fished me, and maybe your Man'ti Teo's girlfriend.  The title says it all.  Shame on me.

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PartyInMyMouth960 reads

I don't understand why hobbyist whine about situations like this when there are Plenty of Pussy that visits or local in this city. It's her loss and you should BLAST HER name so everyone will know what she did to you but instead you posts of self pity because a provider was running late/or had a busy schedule is tiring.  

Look down on this page about another guy whining about the same thing but the provider put him in CHECK.  If this provider feels she wasn't at fault she will defend herself.  BLAST THEM OUT.  Reading whiny post is boring.

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souperman618 reads

Funny that you think the other provider put me in check when in fact she admitted that what I posted, was in fact, correct.  Why hide behind the alias??

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PartyInMyMouth414 reads

After you blasted her, she responded defending herself.  That is putting you in check.   Alias is alias I don't want to be labeled a bitch or a bastard for finally stating something both hobbyist and providers have wanted to utter .

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MissErinBlack698 reads

I'm sure if anyone wants to know, they will ask him privately. The OP had a tough time of it, and is more than welcome to share his misadventure here with others who understand his dilemma. Just because someone finds the story boring or played out doesn't mean it's not worthy of telling. These misadventures happen to all if us, and we should be able to tell tales of misfortune without being judged.

The OP obviously respects the hobby and providers in general to not publicly out someone.  That provider lost out. I'm sure other providers won't.

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souperman482 reads

I also hope the OP respects the hobby and the providers enough that he will never, ever write a bad review or give a negative impression of any provider; such as fake photos, stolen photos, health/hygience issues, bait and switch, etc.  It's just not cool to disclose any negative details about an appointment with a provider!

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MissErinBlack376 reads

...and for discussing things that can clearly be discussed within the contents of a review.  If a provider sucks, smells bad, is a thief, etc, then please report it in the context of a review.  I encourage reviews, really I do.  But you can't review a NCNS. So, what's a dude to do?

Post about it. Post "hey, I had a NCNS. If anyone wants to know who it was, pm me".  

Or, you could post about it on hobbyist/reviewer only board and avoid backlash from providers.  

We disagree about how to handle NCNS providers, souperman. I get it. And it's okay to disagree.  If you have another solution, I'd actually be happy to hear it.

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souperman374 reads

If it is unfair and classless to post about a specific provider NCNS, why is it not unfair and classless to post about a specific providers poor performance, fake pictures, etc??  Just because TER doesn't allow it doesn't answer that question.  Yes, we disagree and will continue to do so.  This specific discussion was over until you and the other provider had to resurrect it under this thread.  Let's agree to disagree and let it go.

By the way, I have asked the author of this thread for specifics about who NCNS him without a reply...... Maybe he will but kind of shoots a hole in the whole idea if the provider involved isn't even identified in private either.  The details sound suspiciously similar to the first NCNS I experienced; the drive downtown, waiting in hotel lobby, need a FE more minutes, then nothing.  If it is the same provider as the first time it happened to me, there is certainly a pattern of behavior that should be exposed publicly.

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PartyInMyMouth406 reads

A good boy

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souperman286 reads

Maybe you should learn to read a little better and pay more attention to what you read.  This certainly explains some of your other confusion above.  

Posted By: PartyInMyMouth
A good boy

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MissErinBlack263 reads

PartyInMyMouth, if you can't keep up with the conversation, I'm afraid you'll have to go sit at the kiddie table. ;)

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PartyInMyMouth264 reads

I don't have time to be sitting on TER all day awaiting replies!! I have too many party's in my mouth for that!!!    

To the soup man what I read was exactly how I stated!! You may think she was bowing down to you but thru others eyes she put you in check by standing up for herself

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clairecavendish522 reads

That's totally outrageous. I don't think I've ever kept anyone waiting if they have a set appointment time. If I'm with a client and he wants to extend time but I have another booking coming then I politely decline.
Sorry you had such a bad experience we're not all like that I promise :(

Related Link: http://clairecavendish.com

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kendallis345 reads

because she is disorganized and unprepared.  OR Maybe she is overbooked with back to back guys and couldn't squeeze you in either time which sucks.  

There are plenty of other fish in the sea!  I bet you dodged a bullet and don't realize it, be grateful and find a provider that is better organized and appreciative of you and your time!  Wouldn't you prefer a provider who looks forward to your time together and doesn't blow you off twice?

Better luck next time, I don't blame you for being pissed and wanting to warn others. No one wants to be treated like they don't matter, then have it happen again!

I'm sorry that happened to you.

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ZabrinaSarafina279 reads

Been stood up like that ....blow to the ego as well as a case of blue balls

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