If you are currently moderated and want to be set free all you have to do is to read the posting rules and reply to this thread.  Once that you have been unmoderated all you have to do is to log off and back on to complete the process.

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?boardID=33&Messageid=75538

I will assume that when you reply that you have indeed taken the time to read the rules. If you haven't read them it won't take long to figure it out.