I have minded my own business for over 50 years and then all of a sudden I start getting older. So to get to the point, I find myself on medication. It has an unfortunate tendency to decrease my sensitivity.  This means, among other things, that while Junior does his job just fine, he requires a tad more motivation.  It has become very hard and tiring to get Junior to finish his work, although you've got to admire him for not quitting once he gets started.  BTW, this isn't ED, everything goes back to "two-minute wonder normal" when I'm not on the med.  

This may sound like a problem a guy might like to have, but frankly getting off has become such a chore I'm ready to take a break from FS altogether. I do love a good massage, and I do love touching naked ladies - but it's gotten to the point that if I'm super relaxed from a great massage the last thing I am going to want is to wake up Junior and go to "work" for 20 minutes. So - ladies - I've never done just sensual massage/HE, can the traditional "ending" be the "beginning?"