I travel to Chicago about once a month on business and I'm hoping to have an ongoing thing with a naturally submissive lady. It doesn't have to be extreme, like hard core BDSM, but perhaps a lady who craves taking direction, some level of rough play (hair pulling) and maybe some discipline like spanking. If the lady desires it to be more hard core, then I'm up for it but that's certainly not a pre-requisite. So, my fellow hobbyists and lovely providers of Chicagoland, can you please help me in my quest. Thank you very much for your help.