I don't understand why a provider who's been communicating up until the day before a scheduled appointment decides to go silent the morning of. Don't tell me she got sick or a relative died or her house blew up, BS. It's clearly a last-minute blow off with no apology nor any "Hey, I can't make it today, sorry" message. I gave her all day to give me some BS excuse - she couldn't even pull that off.

Sorry it happened. It's best to move on and find another Provider.

You, I, and I'm sure many others, often have to go to elaborate lengths to "cover" an appointment. This also means I occasionally have to cancel, but I always keep the lines of communication open and give as much notice as possible. It is not unreasonable to expect at least this level of courtesy from providers. As it happens I am familiar with the particulars of this matter, having recommended the lady in question to my swashbuckling friend only to wind up with egg on my face. So I'm happy to respond to PMs as well (but bear in mind if you have no presence on the boards or no reviews expect crickets).

That sucks. It is a pain in the ass, especially after the planing on your part and time invested.

I just received a short but apologetic email from her 32 hours after the scheduled appointment. It sounds like she was confused by my contact info (PM, email, cell #) and dropped her phone (not sure when that happened). I think she needs an assistant...

Likely story.  Why would you even consider rescheduling with her after she disrespected you like that?  Quit acting like a drooling chump over some hot young thang and give your hard earned money to someone more deserving.

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Most times I'd agree, move on but she has good reviews and a good recommendation. Sometimes second chances are worth a shot under the right circumstances.

Just a misanthrope who doesn't tolerate people well.

You are a good man, PP, but I saw her about a year ago and she and I hit it off and we shared a non serious health issue, and I followed through on a communication and she dropped me like a hot potato, no response. Lesson learned, you and I mean nothing to her but benjamins.

Hopefully the next time things go better.  We all should realize that everyone's time is important

And how is she different than any other provider?  Ladies escort for the money, period.  They're not doing it for friendship, companionship or to find a hubby.  Just because they choose not to be all friendly with us outside of appointments shouldn't reflect on how they act during an appointment.  If I have a great time with a lady every time I see her, but she doesn't respond to my general text messages or engage in email exchanges, why would I cut ties with her?  At that point I see the signs and keep boundaries.  Better to know where those boundaries are than have the lines all blurred

I'll bet she's stunned that you accepted it.

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