Boys we have all been there and my question is...

How do you deal with a situation that when you show up to the room, the door opens and she is NOTHING of what you expected.  Zero attraction.  

How do you deal with it as a gentleman?  Do you bail??? Do you give her something (and she knows she boosted up her ad) and leave short of money so when you reschedule with someone else it just cost you a third more because you gave the last one a couple hundred to walk out???  Do you continue and proceed with the date???  

Seriously,  I'd love to hear your comments and stories of what has happened to you.  It's embarrassing, I hate being rude and it can be just very uncomfortable.

Hasn't happened in a long time but, I'm always wondering whats going to happen when that door opens.  The last time it happened to me, I gave her money and walked out.  Feeling bad and guilty the whole time and i pray that I never have to go through that again. Mean while had to go back to the back withdraw another couple hundred so I could make an appointment with the next one.  Total cost that night $700.  An urge is an urge.

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If she lied or used totally fake pictures, that's one thing.

But if it's just not what you expected, you have to pay and leave or pay and stay. One or the other. If you go to a restaurant and the food is bad, you can't just leave. You have to pay either way, eating it is up to you.

You can be cool about it too, no need to be an ass hat, you can just say, look, on the drive over here I changed my mind, I have a girlfriend and we were fighting and now I want to work things out, but here's your money

you never know what you're getting when the door opens. You take a chance and hope for the best or you simply don't make an appt with a provider who doesn't post face pics that give you some semblance of what she looks like.

Your restaurant analogy is off. When the food isn't good, you complain and the restaurant offers you another dish or comps you the meal. They don't force you to pay for food you don't like, at least not at decent restaurants.

Not sure what the best policy is but make sure you don't piss her off or you'll have a hell of a problem.

I had completely chopped my head off in the pics, lol!

Hey, what if you saw pictures at a restaurant without the head on the chicken dish, but when you got there, the head was on the Chicken?!

You can say, "Hey! This chicken looks nothing like the pictures!"
I guess you could have cancelled when you arrived because I had a head when you got there.

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Had your head really been missing, I would have definitely cancelled. And ran out of there like it was Friday the 13th!

I mean, if she blurs out her face and when you show up you're bummed out because she has a face full of acne and a fucked up grill, then yeah, you gotta at least give her something for her time (unless of course her ad said she has flawless skin and a million dollar smile).  

On the other hand, if her photos show a 20-something, Latina hard body and a 400 lb. white lady in her 60s opens the door, then you have every right to bail.

I have been in the business for a while and I have heard this same sort of thing  
now as a professional I find u should always b u, never bait and switch I would simply just say never mind and give her 20$for her time dont enter room then u might feel obligation to pay more. That s what I would do if u arrive to her place now if she comes to u maybe throw her cab fair and just explain how u feel it could go 2ways she might trip out and cause a scene or she is the pro that she is and she moves on to the next... I dont know if that helped but just an opinion. But like I said in the beginning don't bait and switch its her fault she altered her pics not yours pics are at least a b7g 9art of yoyr money so ladies b smart and becareful.....

The "hobby" we practice is filled with variables and lacking in absolutes making research an essential part of the equation.  Even with a blurred photo I don't feel like I'm walking in there blind.   We have a multitude of resources at our disposal to discern most uncomfortable situations before they ever even happen.  

That being said...I have had a situation or two where the attraction just isn't there.  It hasn't been a problem though because I'm usually so ready to go that if a watermelon with lipstick answered the door I'd be content on the right day.  I can't ever imagine just walking out unless I felt deliberately deceived.        

 
   

Are you suggesting pity pay, lol? Sorry babe, you have an ugly mug, here's a few bucks, go see a dermatologist, LOL.

That sounds like the set-up for a pretty fantastic escort hidden camera show!!!

Accept some risks it does not mean girls should exploit the situation. In the example badcollegegirl gave the lady should let guys know upfront via email on phone about herself if she does not post pics. A solution would be to send real pics once the guy is verified  

 

quote]Boys we have all been there and my question is...  
   
 How do you deal with a situation that when you show up to the room, the door opens and she is NOTHING of what you expected.  Zero attraction.    
   
 How do you deal with it as a gentleman?  Do you bail??? Do you give her something (and she knows she boosted up her ad) and leave short of money so when you reschedule with someone else it just cost you a third more because you gave the last one a couple hundred to walk out???  Do you continue and proceed with the date???    
   
 Seriously,  I'd love to hear your comments and stories of what has happened to you.  It's embarrassing, I hate being rude and it can be just very uncomfortable.  
   
 Hasn't happened in a long time but, I'm always wondering whats going to happen when that door opens.  The last time it happened to me, I gave her money and walked out.  Feeling bad and guilty the whole time and i pray that I never have to go through that again. Mean while had to go back to the back withdraw another couple hundred so I could make an appointment with the next one.  Total cost that night $700.  An urge is an urge.  
   
 SP