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Metdellmania 177 Reviews 979 reads
posted
1 / 12
Providers and Services (or lack thereof)

Maybe someone can help me understand something.  It seems I view a provider's reviews in different cities, and the girl will provide services such as DATY, FIV, BBBJ, anal, but then when they get to Chicago, suddenly they get some pang of decency and no longer offer these services.  

I'd like to think it's not just me, as I'm well-groomed, professional, smell nice.

For example, I visited a provider a couple of weeks ago.  Really cute girl.  I went to put my fingers in her pussy and she said, "ouch, my clit's pierced and that hurts." So I stopped. Yet I read half a dozen reviews when she was in another city, and everyone lists that as one of her services, and that was recently.  I asked for DATY, and she said, "I don't do that."  Yet, her reviews from another city have half a dozen guys who all said they did that with her and even 69.  I asked for BBBJ, and again, nope, yet there are several reviews where that is part of almost every review of her.

What gives?  Has anyone else come across these types of issues with providers?  I know the hobby is not regulated or anything, and providers make their own rules.

Still it confuses the hell out of me when girls are well-known in another city for their services that they simply do not offer to me.  

Thanks for any help here or similar experiences

CavalierServente 574 reads
posted
2 / 12
You get what you pay for...30 minute sessions?

Your last three reviews were all of 30-minute sessions, and yours are the only reviews of these providers.  (There was no point in looking at any more.).  

I've never done a 30-minute appointment. My experience has show that in 2-hour sessions, I get a much more personalized session, which I assume is due to establishing a comfort level.  My experience has been that he quality of the session (and the specific services offered) has much more to do with the rapport than it does with how physically good looking the hobbiest is.

Zana12345 See my TER Reviews 611 reads
posted
3 / 12
I could only tell you for myself!

For me I like to get to know the person first for a few minutes. It just makes sense. I tend to go a little over my time (ask anyone)! LOL ~ Unless you are a complete jerk and then I just show you the door. No matter what you have in your wallet. We do have standards as women when it comes to that. But otherwise the gentlemen just need to make the lady feel comfortable as well. Also know that every lady is different. Some of the reviews are what they are. If you do start with a 30 min visit then it is difficult to get to "know" the new "friend" and therefore hard to go anywhere. If you try to visit for a little longer you might have more luck!
Good luck in the future!

Love
Zana

TwoMints 442 reads
posted
4 / 12
Who

You should feel free to tell us who the provider is.  

I've never had this issue, not sure if it was a 30 minute appointment and that was the reason. I've never done 30 minutes either.

You seem to see a lot of new girls and find them on BP or similar. If the lady was a well reviewed lady found on a more upscale site this wouldn't be an issue.  

BTW, just a bit about your one review I started to read, I stopped at the point of you writing about your big dick. No one cares.  

 
 
Posted By: Metdellmania
Maybe someone can help me understand something.  It seems I view a provider's reviews in different cities, and the girl will provide services such as DATY, FIV, BBBJ, anal, but then when they get to Chicago, suddenly they get some pang of decency and no longer offer these services.    
   
 I'd like to think it's not just me, as I'm well-groomed, professional, smell nice.  
   
 For example, I visited a provider a couple of weeks ago.  Really cute girl.  I went to put my fingers in her pussy and she said, "ouch, my clit's pierced and that hurts." So I stopped. Yet I read half a dozen reviews when she was in another city, and everyone lists that as one of her services, and that was recently.  I asked for DATY, and she said, "I don't do that."  Yet, her reviews from another city have half a dozen guys who all said they did that with her and even 69.  I asked for BBBJ, and again, nope, yet there are several reviews where that is part of almost every review of her.  
   
 What gives?  Has anyone else come across these types of issues with providers?  I know the hobby is not regulated or anything, and providers make their own rules.  
   
 Still it confuses the hell out of me when girls are well-known in another city for their services that they simply do not offer to me.    
   
 Thanks for any help here or similar experiences.  
   
 

robert1985 18 Reviews 419 reads
posted
5 / 12
lack thereof

Personally- I think your reviews are horse crap!!- your the only review 90% of the time and its always BP girls no ones ever heard of.  -you know  I'm just saying!!

Posted By: Metdellmania
Maybe someone can help me understand something.  It seems I view a provider's reviews in different cities, and the girl will provide services such as DATY, FIV, BBBJ, anal, but then when they get to Chicago, suddenly they get some pang of decency and no longer offer these services.    
   
 I'd like to think it's not just me, as I'm well-groomed, professional, smell nice.  
   
 For example, I visited a provider a couple of weeks ago.  Really cute girl.  I went to put my fingers in her pussy and she said, "ouch, my clit's pierced and that hurts." So I stopped. Yet I read half a dozen reviews when she was in another city, and everyone lists that as one of her services, and that was recently.  I asked for DATY, and she said, "I don't do that."  Yet, her reviews from another city have half a dozen guys who all said they did that with her and even 69.  I asked for BBBJ, and again, nope, yet there are several reviews where that is part of almost every review of her.  
   
 What gives?  Has anyone else come across these types of issues with providers?  I know the hobby is not regulated or anything, and providers make their own rules.  
   
 Still it confuses the hell out of me when girls are well-known in another city for their services that they simply do not offer to me.    
   
 Thanks for any help here or similar experiences.  
   
 
-- Modified on 5/24/2015 4:40:49 PM

GaGambler 403 reads
posted
6 / 12
I know you have heard the expression "it's not you, it's me"

In this case I doubt that saying applies.

If these women are enjoying these activities with other guys, but not with you, I would suggest doing an honest inventory of YOURSELF, starting with your hygiene, and stop blaming the women for their newfound "decency" Decency doesn't have a fucking thing to do with it, there is obviously something wrong with YOU if you are getting this from multiple women.

I hate to be harsh (ok, that's a lie, I don't mind being harsh at all) but when you are the only one being refused these services why are you looking outward for answers. Look inward, my little uncleansed grasshopper. lol

Sage of Chicago See my TER Reviews 493 reads
posted
7 / 12
Here are maybe a couple reasons

1st, the no FIV.  If you walk in and expect to just shove your hand down there without washing your hands 1st that could be a big reason.  Our lady parts are very delicate and if you don't wash you could disrupt that delicate balance which would then cost us $ to fix as well as time off till it is better.  That is not worth letting the unwashed touch down there.   You think washing and showering at home before you come to us means clean.  It only means clean really till you leave that bathroom.  You touch the dirty door knob to that door, then the one to your bedroom or at the gym, then the one on the outside, then your car door handle, then your steering wheel, then itch your nuts, then you touch the inside door handle, then the hotel/apt outer doors handle.  By the time you arrive that hand is FILTHY!  And you want to stick it WHERE?  Especially you want to lick it after?  Ugg.  

The no BBBJ, could be an odor, could be that you admit you have not showered since this morning, you might be uncut which many ladies refuse to BBBJ, you could be super hairy down there, you could be one of the very unlucky that has hair growing down your shaft, you could be a leaker and she is not into fluids.  There are so many reasons why.  

The best thing to do is mention you read other reviews and what can you do to get the same service.  It might also be that their 1/2hr sessions are not GFE, you have to do a minimum booking to get those.  So honestly ask

toofuckingstupid 366 reads
posted
8 / 12
ymmv. or you aint doing the shit right. FIV is very complicated to these providers.

some have funny lips or you may have had a nail too long. YMMV again. get over it.

RespectfullyYours 9 Reviews 302 reads
posted
9 / 12
It appears you're attracted to the low-hanging fruit.......

Try a date with a more reputable, established provider. You'll need to pay more, but the good ones will fulfill your sexual fantasies.

Metdellmania 177 Reviews 370 reads
posted
10 / 12
Re: Here are maybe a couple reasons

Hi Sage,

Thank you for your very sound advice.

I did contact the provider, as my curiousity got the better of me.  She indicated that she offered the BBBJ up through March, and only on rare occasions since then, as she had a bad experience (did not elaborate).  She said that as of now she is giving up BBBJ and CIM.  So, at least now I know it was not me. Lol.

Thanks again.

GaGambler 325 reads
posted
11 / 12
Ok, just wait a fucking second

You are basing your entire OP on a sample size of ONE???

You aren't just "challenged" you are beyond stupid. My advice to you is to buy a short length of rope and find yourself a long way to jump.

pghtraveler 33 Reviews 217 reads
posted
12 / 12
services

I'm pretty sure I know who you're talking about, and yes, she made a decision to limit BBBJ/CIM services before she came to Chicago. I do think that we have a relative dearth of GFE (whatever that means) providers in the $200-300 range compared to places like the Bay Area and Dallas, but that's a different story.

I never, ever attempt FIV with providers. It's just too risky for them (that thing works hard enough, and the tiniest jagged fingernail can cause all sorts of problems) and most really don't like it.

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