ok so I set an apt with a provider for the next night and we agreed on a specific time, I gave RS2K, she told me to give her an hours notice, so I called about an hour and a half before the time, left message for call back to get directions and never heard back, I called about 2 hours later and got VM. She is very well reviewed and I really dont know how to take it. Did she get busy or was it me?

I could have been anything.  Family situation, car problem or accident.  She should have called you.  I had this happen to me once before, but the provider was nice enough to apologize and gave me additional time on my next appointment.  Don't jump to conclusions.

Comes with the territory buddy.  I always try to have a back up because I have been left stranded way too many times.

Is she one of the "call me!" providers who sets up appts on a first-come first-served basis? If so, assume she was preoccupied. OTOH, if she is a reliable provider who sees clients by appt only, then she probably had second thoughts. She might have thought you were LE.

The question is will she stay in contact with you or never respond again? That says a lot...

Did you ascertain why she didn't make it? If she blew you off stone cold, then be willing to call her out or cry in your beer alone.

To echo what a lot of others have said, you seem to have given her the opportunity to call you back. You left a message I'm assuming.

If she's as reputable as you say and shit happened out of her control she could/should tell you. I've only been canceled on once and she was a total pro about it. Apologized up and down and offered some perks for the next time I booked. She did call me the next day though. Had some family stuff.

This is a Service industry after all. You shouldn't feel bad complaining about bad service.

Just remember... If YOU would have blown her off she would have black listed you and flagged you with Cathy at Roomservice.  So question is???  Did she have a family problem, did she have a personal problem or did something better pop up???

Bottom line...  She should have respected YOUR time like THEY like to be respected and found a second to make some form of communication.

Walk away and move on...  There are other great providers out there that will respect you.

Like an ex-girlfriend... Don't go back, you've been there already (wanna get burned again?)...  Try something new.

I'd say this is a pretty simple issue, so don't overthink it.  If she calls with an apology and explanation, then decide.  If she doesn't call, move on.  There are so many others that have very good reviews and all that implys, just move on.  Good luck.  I'm sure it wasn't fun being left out in the cold.

why don't you take the time to tell the community who she is?  otherwise why waste the bandwith?

an email asking what happened...just in case she lost her phone. In the email provide the link to this thread.

If you hear nothing then send a note to Cathy of RS2K. I am sure she keeps notes. Also I would out her, but that's just me. Fortunately, I have not been in such a situation.

Shoot her a final email and VM asking her to call you back.  Give it about 24 hours and then out her NCNS.  If it's been 3 or 4 days since this happened (you didn't say what day it was), and she hasn't returned your call or sent an email, out her directly.  Someone else already said it, if the roles were reversed, you'd be blacklisted by now.  You aren't badmouthing her by outing her for NCNS, as long as she's had time to explain things and has just chose not to.  Also, as someone else said, let Cathy at RS2K know in case the provider decides to retaliate by badmouthing you after the fact.

The community is for the spreading of information, both good and bad.  Participation makes the board a better resource.

SMEGMA!!

PS.  Search for her name on the boards first, if she appears to be a psycho, you may want to just lay low depending on how much info she has on you.

It must have been a few days since this happened, she has had plenty of time and means to contact him if she wished.  As already stated tell us who did this, otherwise this board serves as little more as a place to post vids advertise, and socialize.

what the other poster said about letting RS2K know about her not calling or showing up, I know it is one of Cathy's pet peeves also, so she will let the lady know that if she gets complaints about this she will not be advertising on RS.

So it is a double edge at RS yes we can flag the guys for it but they can also.

Thanks for all the good thoughts - I still havent heard from her since the last VM I left but as someone said before she seems to be on a first come first served schedule so I'm gonna not going to take it the wrong way, I still want to see her because she's hot and the great reviews. I was feeling burned the other night but I've cooled off - I'm not about outing someone, she either got busy or had a situation. I cant be pissed or the hobby for me takes a different turn.

I agree with Mr J. Unless a lady did something particularly egregious - cause me some harm - I'm not going to harm her rep or way to make a living. I've been in the same situation and finally came to the same conclusion: the hobby should be fun and harming someone isn't my idea of a good time. I just moved on.

I've had experience with the first-come, first-served girls. This is not atypical behavior. they can have great reviews but they will not respond  to you if a better offer comes along. It's pretty much a crap shoot with these girls but I must say there are a few hotties that I like seeing that fit this bill. Once you've broken through and actually seen them, they tend to treat you more responsibly because they don't like losing a client. It's getting your foot in the door the first time that can be frustrating.

I think I may know who you're talking about because one of these types has blown me off at the last second twice now. I gave her a second chance but she won't get another. PM me if you'd like, I should have VIP back shortly.

If you guys don't think that you should out providers that no show or pull other shennagins on you why do you even bother participating in this board?  It seems like you are just riding the coat tails of those who actually share information.  You guys should just surf eros, find someone you like and let the chips fall where they may.  Its no fun for those of us who actually share information to have to read the drivel of those who read the info provided on this board and won't reciprocate.  It may not be as much fun for the next guy who follows in your shoes and is no showed.  It may not be as much fun for someone who actually sees her and the experience isn't up to the reviews which may be fabricated.    By your logic a bad review would also harm a provider, so would you write a good review for a bad experience or just not write one at all?  Your silence is harming other hobbiests and that isn't fun for us.

I'm confused.  You said that you set up an appt with a provider for the next night and you agreed on a specific time.

Then you said that she told you to give her an hours notice.

Did you have a specific date set up for a specific time?  

Or

Did you have one of those, I'll call you around 7:00 if I'm free at 8:30???

If indeed you had option 2 and a "sure thing" came up...it isn't her fault.

I'm just confused with the whole "hours notice" thing.

We need to create a new site called 'The Sucker's Highway' and let all of these guys with money and time to throw away have at it. Great post!

you want another site?? you don't even write reviews for this one so how to you contibute to this site??

I don't know who the provider is in this situation, but if she doesn't or can't take the time to reach out to you personally after a week or so, you should let the rest of us know who she is.  I never heard from Audrey and will not re-schedule with her in spite of all the great reviews.