Looking for a lady to strap one on and take me for a ride...any reccomendations.....or volunteers...ladies?

Usually you don't get full-service f/s but you should be able to find a memorable strap-on experience.

Try Mistress Mary...
TER Reviews:

http://theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?id=26275

Try Sage of Chicago she has reviews TER

Tell this woman your fantasy and she will make it a reality.

I'd go with Mistress Mary for my first choice. She talks to you before the session starts to get an idea of what your looking for. The first time with Sage wiped me out. The second wasn't so intense. So I'd try a SM Dom.