I had my first NO SHOW with Arista Dixxx. Called her up, set something up for the next day. Gave her my information and she called back after she verified. Gave me directions and her address and set it up for 9 in the morning. She calls back a little later and pushes it back to 10. I show up the next day, nothing. Called at 9, called at 10 and then agian, from her parking lot at 10:15. NO SHOW. I and all of us men have better things to do than to waste our time with these type of providers. Shame on you Arista Dixxxx!!!!

I feel your pain. I had a well-known provider cancel for the 3rd time yesterday.

Maybe something came up at the last minute and she couldn't get ahold of you.

Thank you Will,

Actually there is a good explanation.  Well first of all any one who has seen me knows that it's not my nature to stand someone up. We actually talked the previous night where he got directions and everything.  However that same night I lost my phone.  The only info he didn't have was my bell number. My only question is this.  If you called and hour ahead and weren't able to reach me (which might have been a sign that something was wrong), why did you continue on your way with out confirmation that I was there?

I can understand him trying to put it out there for others to beware.  And I can also understand him being "pissed".  But I don't understand how you can go off with out knowing my side of things.  Just like you found a way to communicate and get a msg across on the board. You could've found a way to contact me via email perhaps.

sorry that you were disappointed.
and thank you Will for looking at things logically

Yours Sensually,

Arista

GIVE HER A CHANCE, SHE IS ONE OF BEST PROVIDERS IN CHICAGO- TRY AGAIN SHE WILL COME THRU

Time is also money on the other end, let alone have to tell a few 'white' lies to make arrangements only to have providers do these things. I'd vote with my wallet and not call her again. There are plenty of "good" providers. Next!

That NEVER happens with me.

Some guys get miffed that I make them use a booking form on my site...but notice I never stand anyone up, I'm never late, I don't delay your appt time.

If you book with me, you can expect smooth sailing----not to mention I'm a hotty too!


For all those guys that cry about having to use an appt form----it saves time, saves confusion, and guarantees we are both on the same page---I know when you want to meet exactly, how long you want to play, the rate is agreed upon, and no surprises---well, unless you count lingerie as a surprise!

And yes I have considered calling you, hottie that you are... but I think you are DT and that's a factor for me as I live NW of airport; but you are on my short-list. No $hit.

Well that may be but, I had my cell with me. She did call me back the previous day to tell me that her friend Ahvani (who I had seen twice previously confirmed me and, I'm a RS2K member and, she called to reschedule from nine to ten. So, what happened the next day? Not acceptable. Unexcusable. Too bad for me because I was hoping to see this fine young gal and too bad for her, she lost the money. Whatever the reason, a common curtasy call would have done wonders.

Maybe she is great. She wasn't yesterday. She still has not called with any expaination. "Great" people don't do that. Last time I checked, I was a paying customer. She wasn't going to give it to me free. Try again? What's that saying.... fool me once, shame on you. Fool............ (

Now, that's my feelings too. There are plenty of good providers that make us men feel great. God Bless them all, and Happy Holidays!! Even you Arista!

Fair enough. To just put an end to this and not drag this on for no constructive reason, let's just say, we'll agree to disagree. The reason I continued on, so that you know, is that I thought that you might be busy with another client and could/would not answer your phone. But, since 10:00, then 10:15 came around and still nothing from you, well..... what would you do? How would you feel? Anyway, Happy Holidays and good luck and Good Night Mrs. Calabash, wherever you are.

hmmmm ok it's late and I'm going to try and put this in a way that doesn't offend a provider or a hobbyist.  That said, the reason why he probably continued to come to your incall location is probably (and I'm guessing here) because he figured that you may have been at the end of a previous session while he was calling......so maybe he figured that, you didn't want to be rude to your client to pick up the phone, and that you would call back when you were alone.  I've done this before myself.  I have called a provider to let her know that I'm on my way, I leave a vmail, and then 10 mins later I get a call back saying "sorry I was in the shower, or getting ready, or something else", but I didn't turn around because she didn't pick up the phone.  The same goes if a provider calls me 1 or 2 hours before a meeting, if I don't pick up my phone, I don't assume that our meeting is cancelled because I may be in a work meeting where I can't pick up the phone to speak to a provider.  Lost phone or not, if you had his number on an email, then you should have called him(I'm guessing you screen, so you should have had a number).  If u only had his number on your cell phone, then it's understandable.

-VR4 Guy

You knew the guy was coming so losing your phone shouldn't have been any reason for you not to be there.  

You may very well be a great provider and we all know that nobody bats 1000%, but it's your responsibility to keep the appointments you make and to give notice of cancellation for those that you can't make and you failed to do so (barring medical/family emergencies, etc..).

But rather than split hairs (ever hear of a pay phone or a land line?) and point fingers an apology here would have been much more appropriate than an attempt to bail yourself out and point fingers back.


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No shows no calls happen. Both ways. But I am sure hobbyists change/cancel meetings much more often than providers. You're obviously a vet and am surprised this never happened before. In 6+ years it has happened to me twice, both by superstars and I had no backup plan for that evening. That sucks. But if it happens 1/30 or 1/40 times that's OK by me. Sometimes, especially when I am travelling, I make a backup plan. If you want to feel better, read bradleymartin review of Iowa Hotty from December.