A few weekends ago, my then-girlfriend totally surprised me by sticking her small, well-lubricated vibrator in my butt.  The feeling with that vibrator was ecstasy, but for unrelated reasons my girlfriend and I broke up before it ever happened again.  Before then, I’ve always just had ordinary, vanilla sex – my backside has always been exit only.  I want to find a Chicago-area provider who can re-create the vibrator experience and test my limits.  I am looking for an ultra-sensual massage, not sex (but I never say never).

A ton of internet research leads me to believe that I probably don’t want BDSM.  I’m not turned on by the thought of being a slave, having my twig and berries beaten, being humiliated, tasting my own cum, or being pooped or peed on.  Pain is not what I want.  I just want to re-experience the feeling I had during that experience with the small vibrator, and test my limits in that area.

Does anyone have any recommendations for a Chicago area provider, who will understand that I’m a total novice, and who will respect my limits and stop immediately if I think it’s gone too far?  The provider, by the way, must be female and reasonably attractive.  I’m in my early 30’s, and I’d prefer someone within 10 years of my age.  Thanks for any help you can give.

or you if you really want a treat, then Mary in the burbs, wheaton area is you best bet.