Is it me, or do any of you other gents hesitate to post bad review of a lady for fear of a back-lash against you with your personal information out there? How do you handle this? This is such a great venue but I have found recently that so many of the glowin reviews of the ladies have been way off base, more on the looks than the performance. I know this is all subjective but a 9 or 10 on looks would equal a Marlo Moore, a Hope Taylor or a Lisa from Maine etc with model looks. I don't wish to disparage anyone, but what is our scale for appearances? I would rate very few of the many ladies (over 50) I have seen a 9 and unless I slept with Jenna Jameson a 10 is never to be used by me. This may start some flames, but so be it. I am torn as to providing some honest, heart felt reviews or keeping my opinions to myself.
simple...you just don't tell the ladies what your handle on the board is....and u wait a while before posting the review instead of hopping on TER the minute u get home.
Too many clients are way too eager to tell a provider their handle on the boards. They do it in hopes to gain favor with the lady by promising a great review then shilling for her on the boards.
Keep your handle to yourself, wait some time before posting a review then leave out the details that specifically identify you. For example, if you engaged in a lengthy conversation about your last tropical vacation, or asked her for tips on how to decorate your home, don't mention it in the review... she'll just link it back to you.
It all comes back to how you read the reviews. If high scores are consistent, then you probably won't be disappointed. If they're mixed, then you'll be chancing it. As far as looks is concerned, I post a review on my tastes, not anyone elses. I generally score high on looks, but I seek out women that appeal to me, and then judge them by my standards. If I rate someone a 9 for looks, it's because in my minds eye she is almost perfect to me. But I can understand if someone would rate the same girl 6 or 7. It is as you say, subjective. As for performance, if I see someone who leaves me with a shit eatin grin on my face for the rest of the day, then that score will be high also. Since I started using TER as my frame of reference for searching out the best possible experiences, I have never had a bad one. So either I'm lucky, or careful, or both. But unless your reviews of providers are consistantly bad, I wouldn't worry about a backlash. And As 3000GT said, just don't give out your TER handle
I look to see if the pics are real and a fair representation. Then in the comments I look for any changes (ie. added weight, old photos). I don't bother to look at the number much.