If communication stops before an appointment is confirmed, I always move on.  I'm obviously not a priority and there are always other great ladies to see.  Providers should realize they need us more than we need them.

with a couple of providers and just moved on. One is from Texas and other from Wisconsin. There are many other providers who will gladly see hobbyists with nice reputations.

Bent over backwards for a certain visitor a while back and then she ignored me the entire time she was here but apologized after she was already gone. Hell, at least she apologized so I guess that means there's still a chance next time.

Communication is always tough, they're getting tons of calls and emails but we see it as we're the only guy communicating with them. Beyond the communication overload, she only has so much time so she can't see everyone who wants to see her. A provider in that situation gets to pick and choose and it's  not difficult to figure out how what criteria she's using to select clients. $$$$$. Maybe I need a few more $$$$$$...