Hmm I've had a provider do that too. Called her she didn't answer and then texted me back. I was looking for a short notice appt so It worked out for me. Im not too sure what to tell you about wanting it right away. But Then again she might not like scheduling and is looking to make cash now. Alot of girls on Backpage move around alot so maybe she wasn't staying in the area for long.

as far as pushing you for tonight, it all depends.

First of all you have to be careful of the BP. Too many fake photos and LE activity. I browse the BP then check for TER reviews. No reviews. No date. Also, one would think if a lady is giving out her phone number she would be interested in hearing your voice. That first impression should tell her a lot about you if she is for real. I know from the first minute of a call I make to a new lady if I want to proceed with the date. RED flag for me on a text back with fist contact. LOL, I DO accept texts from ladies I personally know. Love the erotic messages and photos.

Try this tool when checking the BP. Spot a suspicious photo? Try using TinEye. You'll be surprised.

Stay safe.

SR