but it probably depends upon the type of music they are playing at the time...

You can only take a 'classic 80s cover band' for so long...

because married men are less likely to fall for and excessively pursue a provider.  Less likely to act on felling should they develop.

I just love to play, friendships, and intimacy(lots of lust filled playing!!) are cool with guests but more should be left for a wife or civi girlfriend.  

So, to see in advance that you are married can actually be a turn on.

Hell, some civi women do not mind either.  When I was younger there was a time when I would only date married guys because I didn't want commitment.

I was a slut long before I became a ho...  Licks, Sage