I find a number of providers overdo it and sounds fake. Are there providers that you think that do not fake it and truly let you know when they enjoy it?  Who are they?  The faking is a real turn off..

Does the projection of an expectation that a woman will "fake" it ruin her ability to relax and do what is natural for her? Catch-22. Often, its also a projection that he subconsciously cannot possibly believe that he is turning her on, is capable of pleasuring her, etc..  Pessimism and orgasm are not bed-fellows.

For most men, it's impossible to know if a woman is really enjoying it. We're so used to women faking pleasure and O's, it's a safe assumption that she's faking it even when she isn't. Having said this, there are a few providers I *think* I can tell if they're enjoying themselves or simply going through the motions. It takes a long time and many sessions to get to a point where we have any chance of figuring out whether it's fake or real. And just when we think we have her figured out, something changes that throws us completely off, e.g., something that never bothered her before suddenly bothers her greatly and you wonder why this started all of a sudden or if it was there all along and she was doing a good job of hiding it.

Over thinking and worrying about whether or not.a.provider is or isn't faking her enjoyment is a great way to ruin a session and come away feeling shitty. And that's a shame. What a bummer

That I am all over the internet with porn so when gentlemen meet me they expect all the same noises when everyone is different (even in Porn) ~
I have fun. That is why I like to talk to the person before hand to get to know that we can have good chemistry. I tend to get noisy... that is why music is on and doors are closed... LOL
I am pretty "easy" ~~ I know... I left that one open! LOL
I just feel that if people (women) are faking it then how are they going to "really" have fun?? Just my opinion!  

I think Amy Xperience (TER ID: 149453) is a provider who is very easy to bring to an orgasm, and she is not likely to fake it. The very first time I saw her, she broke out in sweat when she had an orgasm. Her back was dry just before, and 10 seconds later, it was covered with sweat. It seems to me that this is very difficult to fake. We've talked about what she likes and what she doesn't, and she seems pretty honest about this.

The same way a guy feels when he thinks she's faking.

Not gonna lie, I actually enjoy the moaning, fake or real it actually gets me going. A girl could sit next to me and start moaning and I'll be at attention in a few.

Except one time where the girl seem to be enjoying herself so much I just thought it must be fake. I'm not that good. I think.

Consider yourself fortunate to hear the moaning and go with it. There is no sound better than a woman being pleasured. The sounds are like music to the ears and lets you know your on the right path. I'm a screamer myself and love to join in when things are going well. This is the ultimate time to enjoy why ruin it by saying something stupid? There is nothing worse than not getting any reaction or moaning in this case Silence is not Golden. I'm not repeating unless there is some feed back during playtime some dirty talk, likes, dislikes and moaning.

I personally love to hear a girl moan as I'm we're doing the deed . But at the same time if she's just moaning for the sake of making me think I'm doing good and the physical signs aren't there I.E. moistness, sweating, heavy breathing then why bother. I would rather get pointers, no two bodies are the same and the chemistry doesn't always work. I guess in short keep up the moaning.

I love your morning Zana!

I guess stuff like this must come with the territory, but God....how awful!

Sex is a whole lot more fun when you're able to give pleasure as well as receive!!!

And it is feels good for her to tell me what she likes, how she likes it, and her experiences.

they feel it's their "job" to satisfy our egos.

just rude.

I know a couple who don't fake. In this realm and with a fuck buddy I've encountered screamers who also get a vice grip on me or even push me out.

exactly what you should have done.  

I love hearing moaning. I never worry about it being fake. If it is, fine, and if not , that's fine also. I usually see providers multiple times so I think that the extra connection makes the sounds I hear more sincere. I also don't worry about my partners O's. Hey, if she has one, great and if not, that's okay too. I don't know how many appointments she'll have before me or after and frankly, that's her business. If she pushes me towards one, I help all I can. Let's just have fun out there.

I wasn't actually talking about this kind of change. Nothing of a sexual nature. But as far as the sex is concerned, by all means I'd want her to speak up and say what she wants. I like women who give direction for more pleasure.

I get some of my best O's recalling that hot Cali stripper who danced completely nude with her hot ass in my face. Or the stripper who slowwwwllly pulled down her G-string and revealed her ass a little at a time. Or sometimes the hottie who ground me on a couch in the VIP room topless while I played with her tits. And then there's that unbelievably hot Polish girl from Heavenly Bodies who I wanted to snake into a corner away from the cameras and fuck her brains out...

I guess that's why I never say anything when I think a girl might be overdoing it with the noise. Because I could be wrong. And if I ask her to be respectful to me then I certainly want to be respectful to her. She's doing me QUITE a favor!!!

When I turned 29 I decided I didn't care anymore and, not coincidentally, sex became a lot better. If you fill your head with worrying about BS like this you won't enjoy yourself.

Silence is golden, sometimes.

You are so sweet... It is real... sometimes when I had to edit my porn website and my videos for my former site I had to hear it and got embarrassed... I never realized what I sounded like.