As I know many of us have requests for our dates I wonder how they feel about what we wear.
Maybe I am thinking to deeply here but I ALWAYS dress prefessionally, only once have I worn jeans but they were nice jeans.
As Chicago gets hotter I prefer shorts, nice and casual.
Do the ladies feel this as respectfull?

I've considered this question before, as I'm sure many others have. When it comes to meeting with a gal that I've never met before, I approach it from this perspective - you can only make a first impression once. I also usually follow this guideline with gals I repeat with as well.  I don't over dress - usually a nice shirt and khakis.  I once had one gal actually say to me that I didn't need to get dressed up - I didn't think that I was "dressed up". But I told her that I didn't want to show up like a slob. Whether or not she appreciated that, I don't know. In reality, first and foremost, they're only concerned with how the donation envelope is dressed up - with plenty of Ben Franklins in it!  But, regardless, I personally feel it helps to set a positive tone if you show up looking presentable.  For what that's worth, that's my 2 cents.

and your clothing is clean it does not matter to me they are going to come off anyway ha ha!
Truly though my favorite outfit on a guy are jeans ( that hug his ass just a little) a nice cotton breathable shirt , I love to see a guy in a button down cotton shirt but shorts are hot too if worn  
with a shirt that accents his shoulders and chest or everything if he works out. I like tennis shorts
on a guy the less he wears the better! No speedos please !
 

you wanna make us horny right?  

Just as long as your clean I'm sure clothing is optional,)...

in the summertime..i just wear shorts with a loose fitting shirt and some sandals..i love it..i can be undressed in less than 30 seconds for Yummy Time..

i really dont think clothes make you girls horny..tongues and fingers seem to work much better..

........ sure keep in mind the surroundings you'll likely be in but come summer weather I don't think hotels even some of the nicer ones will give funny looks if you "dress down".  
I don't think every guy will be going in and out of a 3.5/4 star hotel in full suit & tie in 85+ degree weather IJS.

I must be a TS then, shall I shave it up your.....????

Mens Clothing

I look forward to seeing what a guy has on the first time we meet.  It's part of the anticipation package for me.....  
I would be upset if I found out they were not being THEMSELVES and feeling COMFORTABLE though.   That is THE most important thing.  It's exciting to meet someone new and you shouldn't be feeling awkward or uncomfortable with how you're dressed.  I don't think it's being disrespectful at all to arrive wearing shorts.  After all, it IS summer!!  Dress for the Season!

Clean is always important, but here's an alternative scenario with a question at the end:
It's a brutally hot summer day, 98 degrees with humidity to match. Fresh from a shower, you drive th her incall, then walk just one block to get there. By the time you arrive, you are soaking wet with sweat.
Will your lady allow you to shower once again at her place? Will it be on the clock? Or, is there a difference between sweat from working and sweat from weather?
What say you, ladies

If You came through my door soaking wet from sweat, I'd for sure lead you over to my shower for a quick rinse.  and I'd be on my knees waiting for you, right there.  

Re: Mens Clothing

Hey, when I'm with you it doesn't really matter....I'm out of my clothes in 30 seconds anyway!!

Good question!