Hobbyists do this all the time. What's the problem?..

Perhaps you should tell her to update her website with photos that are current.  
It is not rude to say these things. This is not civie life, and the both of you should not be insulted by the truth.
Better via email then in a review.

Done tactfully, it's a fair thing to request that she update her pictures or risk being outed on the public board. If mean-spirited in any way, it is a bad idea. She may get away with it for a time, but that's why the board exists to share the good and bad. I have met providers in person after I had an interest in them but the in-person meeting was a bit of a downer. I think the best thing to do is honesty, but not at her expense or to stroke his ego.

At a basic level I agree with Kelly , sounds like the guy didnt handle himself well.

But to be honest I can identify with the guy's frustration. Ladies are down right deceptive with their pictures.   It's done intentionally too and  When a guy sees this time and time again it can start to ruffle your hobbying feathers a bit.  

I recently saw a well known and reviewed provider that visits regularly and was amazed at how photo shopped her pics were once I saw her in person. She was easily 20 lbs. heavier in person. Great provider and I had a great time but I still felt intentionally decieved because I what was advertised was not the truth.  (What equally amazed me too was all the white knighters who reviewed her never really called her out for it in their reviews. But that's another thread in itself)    

The truth hurts and if she's using less than accurate pics she has only herself to blame if someone holds her responible for it.

When I read stuff like this, I begin to wonder exactly what planet some people live on...I mean HELLO? Apparently the aliens that raised this guy neglected to teach him any manners or common courtesy. Allow me to help him out a little...you know, catch him up so he doesn't end up with a foot (or two) in his mouth again...the gent (using THAT term loosely) in question will, from this point forward be referred to as "Sparky". Here goes:

1. You were graciously invited to a private party hosted by Kelly-yes, you paid a nominal fee to attend, but it is still a PRIVLEDGE not a RIGHT to be invited. If for no other obvious reason, this should tell you that appropriate behavior is expected.

2. Meeting and chatting with a lady at the party, then later,behind the "safe" guise of an email, insulting her like you did is NOT considered appropriate behavior. In fact, it is downright RUDE and UNACCEPTABLE. Got that Sparky? (tempted to use the term "slapnuts", but am attempting to show restraint)

3. You are not going to be attracted to every provider, or hell, any PERSON (yep, yep, yep-holy crapolas-epiphany time...ready? PROVIDERS ARE PEOPLE, TOO-I know, crazy sh*t, right? *sigh* but I digress...). That does NOT mean that you write them after the fact to insult their appearance, or accuse them of misleading anyone purposely with their pictures. You did NOT schedule an appointment and she collected no fee from you. Thus, you have no right to say anything, much less something rude and "mean-spirited" to her. You lost nothing-perhaps you even GAINED some phony self confidence at the expense of this lady's feelings...

Congrats. Do you feel better now that you hurt someone's feelings? You must, otherwise, what was the purpose of being a complete, small-minded, thoughtless asshole?

4. I disagree with one of the earlier posts that said that comments like this are better said in a private email than in a review. If you feel that the disparity between a lady's actual appearance and her photos is significant enough that it warrants a comment, it should be made by a "paying customer", not some random schmoe (Sparky) who never even experienced private time with the lady, and it should be done in a tactful, constructive manner. If you are not a paying customer, then you have NO business saying anything. To be perfectly blunt, WHO ASKED YOU, Sparky? Lol.

Sorry, people who do or say mean, negative, rude, et al things for no apparent reason make me literally sick to my stomach. I feel sorry for them. Do they really have nothing else better to do than write emails to women they met briefly at a party to insult them?

Oops...uh...yeah. I think I just answered my own question. *shakes head* To the guy that wrote this email: I pity you, dude. I really do.

Amber

*crawls back under rock*