I am just wondering why that most of the providers whom I see regularly and I enjoy my time with them, never ask me to reschedule our meetings because it is that time of the month!  There was only one ATF who used to tell me about her No days well in advance every month (man! I miss that woman!). My question is: do some providers see hobbyists while they are having their periods thinking that guy will never find out as long as he does not get his finger all in? I am one of the guys who like to kiss and lick almost everywhere when there is a good connection with a provider!

Would you rather keep the appointment or reschedule? I usually have two days when I don't want to take appointments and I embarrass the few days off catching up on stuff I need to do or just relaxing. Years ago I had a few clients who would loved to book those couple days a fetish of some sort. At the time if they were into it then why not. These days I only take appointments when I'm feeling heathy and 100% .

I pretty much never give that as a reason.  I'll say I'm sick or sometimes a family problem (Aunt Flo, Ha!) because fantasy women get colds and have families, but no periods! The horror!

Those I've never seen before would likely tell me they are booked on those days, or otherwise unavailable.  The few that I've gotten to know well and have seen regularly are totally honest with me about that time of the month, and I respect them even more for their honesty.  Sometimes they ask if I'd seem them at that time, and sometimes I have, and other times we both decided to reschedule for her comfort.

Any woman having to work on her period plus lie about it, is not very good at money management. I have provided for a good seven years and have never had to work those 3-4 days. And, I have NEVER been like OMG my period just started. I generally know a few days before it's coming. FYI, there is a sea sponge that many women can use where you will not know one way or the other. I have used them in personal life and guys still went down on me with no difference in smell or taste... one has to know how to really clean before putting a sponge in. I think you and any other guy this happens to is owed a partial refund or at least the damn truth. Good lord.

but a perfectly predictable cycle with 3-4 day periods would be a dream for a lot of women.

It's not that predictable, but I've never had to LIE about it. I am not putting anyone down for having a horrible time with things they can't control... I am referring to a pattern of women who constantly pull the ole "Gosh, my period started" mid-date when the shit was on when he got there.

Yes, this I agree with. Not offering up full disclosure because you are canceling on the guy is one thing.... I am talking about being on your period and still seeing clients anyway without making them aware. We can tell clients anything we want to before an appt. so not at all debating that. The OP is talking about being bsed during one

In a long time, he assumed they were seeing him on those days and just concealing it.  

I don't mind at all if they ask to reschedule for whatever reason they choose to tell me. My concern was that they mightbe having their period and they are concealing it. Now I know it is possible. It is something that I don't like, but it's not the end of the world specially if the kitty looks clean and smells fresh

Ohhhh, well that makes sense lol. Yah, we are all going to tell a guy flat out our period is on if we have to cancel ha ha ha. Thanks for the clarification, but the other happens a lot too and it's kinda gross if you go in knowing it.

An old saying from my college days, "You can tread the Red River Canyon but you cannot drink from it".  Gross enough for everyone  this morning?

To explain just how bad the surprise visit is lol

I was just about to have breakfast, WICardinalfan. Guess, I'll hold off and have a late lunch instead....