I believe you're talking about someone you would be able to have an ongoing friendship AND professional services, but both compensated...

...and are looking for someone who gives you that type of feel that you are friends.

My suggestion is to join people's snapchats if they have them to see how they go about their day in sharing with their circle. You can get more of a feel if it's all about the sex, or if the provider is more relational.  

Sometimes their onlyfans does the same thing. You can subscribe for a month and see the content, then unsubscribe.

Social media also shows how they relate to clients and talk about them/to them. I'm not talking about the dynamics between man-hating vs sappy... but you can read between the lines in how they view their place in relation to clientele vs providers.

Someone with a blog that shares more of a personal touch would also be a place to start. Reviews? Same. (You can get super gorgeous 10's in looks and find a friendship type feel in them. The myth that good looks + high priced = cold, dry, & sourpuss is not always accurate.)

If I am correct about the type of request you are looking for, I will just say it will take you a bit longer in the research than you might bargain for, but it is worth it. I've had clients watch me for well over a year before booking. People do that.

Also, people who post on forums & media platforms tend to be more personal I have heard, but I'm not sure.

I hope this helps!

Xoxo,

Jacque Jenesais
Formerly known as Courtney O!

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