it also could be that your new client is getting an off vibe from your friend and wants a change.
I say concentrate on your enterprise and show your new client the time/s of his life and let your friend worry about her business and the loss of clients.
Okay a friend of mine who's not a provider on the board or advertise services, not like how we ladies do it here but does provide but get her clients thru entertaining. Well anyway, she has a regular client and when she requested that I come with her twice it was because he would bring his friend and I would be for the friend.
Anyway his friend got my number saying he wanted to see me without his friend and my girl. So my girl call me again saying her client want both of us (w/o his friend) and at a discounted rate which usually he would pay both us 400 a piece and it was barely over 45 mins, this time she said he only had 200 a piece and she inform me this when we already arrive, plus I had to go out my way to go get her then drop her back off all for just 200. So I said fu*k it and did it anyway since we came so far.
A week pass I get a phone call from her client who tells me that he got my number from his friend and he would like to see me later. I tell him that the short change he provided last time did not sit well with me and he said I gave you both 400 a piece as I always do. and ask me is it more?
Anyway he somehow don't want to deal with her no more, has some girl tell her stop calling him and just completely cut her off and she call me and tell me about it but while she venting she goes to tell me he's nothing but her 400 dollar trick and he has never given her anything less. So I said yes he did when you and I did the threesome and she must've forgot she told me that's all he was working with.
Anyway the client and I see each other without her knowing and he pays me 500 for the hour and want to pay to take me on trips and knows what I do and actually my fee is 300 an hour so he giving me more. I know for a fact my girl would lie about what the clients would give because she would take them in other room and give me what she said the client told her all he had.
My question to you is should I feel bad about taking a good paying regular client who can afford giving me 500 twice to 3 times a week? I'm only asking because now she feeling the lost of a good client and she telling me this and I don't want to hurt her feelings.
Please Note: I'm just testing out my alias for the first time.
I guess the question is would you rather be fucked by 'friends' or strangers?
You have a chance for a better setup and wonder if you should fuck over your girl since she's fuckin' over you. I dunno, this is beyond psychosocial theory I studied in college. How do you feel about it? You feel ok with what you're doin'? If so, cool, go for it. If your friendship is important, you might want to cover your ass and talk it over with her.
...you should try testing a coherent paragraph instead.
At least you didn't post a YouTube link.
it also could be that your new client is getting an off vibe from your friend and wants a change.
I say concentrate on your enterprise and show your new client the time/s of his life and let your friend worry about her business and the loss of clients.
and most like variety. If your friend has been doing this for awhile, she will know and understand this. If she is truly your friend, she will be happy for you...just as you are happy for her when she finds a client who treats her well. If the gent enjoys your friends company and services, he will still visit her from time to time.
Sounds like she lost this client with her own bad behavior. I do not think you are stealing anyone. He has found a new interest, you. Take advantage of the fact that he wants to see you now. It may be some one new next week or next month. Ignore any negative post not addressing your question. It is easier to bitch and complain then take the time to respond with something resembling an intelligent opinion.
Doc
If I understand things correctly, your friend told you that you would only be getting $200 for the double date, but she was paid $800, pocketed $600 and gave you $200?? If that's the case, then I don't see any loyalty or honesty coming from your "friend", so why would you owe her any in return? I say go on seeing the client and enjoy the boost in business and finances.
have a difficult time following along with this poorly written story?? was the author drunk? Maybe the next moderator will have to be an English professor and be required to blue pencil edit all posts???
like another stated here the men do not belong to one provider and since she did you wrong as a business partner and friend I would be very leary of calling her friend.
Take advantage of the man's generosity since he knows he is over paying your regular fee but he must enjoy it or would not do it.
He will tire of you also and look for variety so get while you can hon.
to the others who had a hard time reading it, sometimes when emotions and feelings get mixed up with what your trying to write about and its hard enough verbalizing it much less write about it.
plus she admitted she is new to this so why not just try to understand things for what they are instead of disecting it looking for something to critisize, seems like yuor putting her down to make yourself feel better.
Thats my opinion of people who belittle people for wrong punctuation and spelling errors.
"Ignore any negative post not addressing your question. It is easier to bitch and complain then take time to respond with something resembling an intelligent opinion." Doc
Thanks you Doc, Apropo and ALL those who were intelligent enough to give good if not great advise and opinions and not worry about or critisize paragraph, wrong punctuations and spelling errors but I was emotional and writing beyond my speed limits and I am sorry for those who aren't up to speed on the intelligent part of not understanding what I was saying or asking, next time I will use youtube or a picture signs so it will be more easier for you.
Sorry Doc, I just couldn't resist. Again thank you all!
Agreed.
But maybe English isn't her first language.
You're right, this is business so you should deal with each of these issues separately.
First, you have no reason to feel bad that your friends client has now hired you. According to your story you didn't seek him out or otherwise lure him away; he came voluntarily.
Second, you should be clear with the client about your fee. You now know he not LE so you can speak with him frankly about it. Make sure he understands that your fee is $300, not $500 but that he is welcome to give a tip if he wishes. It's possible that he's mistaken about your fee or he may simply be trying to make up for what he knows your friend withheld from you. In any event you both should have the same understanding of what the terms are to avoid possible bad feelings in the future. I know that if I was mistakenly giving $200 more than the actual fee and wasn't informed I would be pissed!
Third, your "friend" is not your friend at all. She has lied to you, taken advantage of you for profit and wasted your time. For all you know she was telling this guy that you were $500 to get extra money from him at the same time she was telling you that he only had $200. In any event she cannot be trusted.
BEWARE: If she would short change and lie to you like this she will definitely set you up for LE if she were to get herself jammed up. Cut her off!
This alias, not so, troll for drama elsewhere.
Doc
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