Where are all the discussions at? Man, it seems like things have really changed since they came back....,

 
Well, anyways- Hello Chicago! How is everyone handling business with the pandemic?? I choose to do mostly online work. but I am still meeting with suitors that are vaccinated.  

Gents, do you require your providers be vaccinated?

Ok you want to talk about something else?  
Something more than dropping an ad or ISO?

TOPIC
Little Known Fact: The most important thing you can help a client feel is for them to feel "totally accepted."

A lot of guys in the hobby (certainly not all)  
Lack confidence with women,  
Are concerned about their own appearance,  
Are intimidated by beautiful women.

When a provider immediately treats them with warmth, kindness, and grace  
When a provider immediately looks them in the eye and smiles with the smile that says "I am so happy to see you!"
When the provider is simply open to touch and positively responsive to being touched
It is MAGIC

Its not about the acronyms!

What are your thoughts on THAT?

I am a hobbyist. I am a fan of bonding and keeping a trusting relationship with a provider I may see. No "let's get to it" for me on the first meeting. I'm not the guy with the most resources but I do try to bring a gift, wine, food, etc. My ATF and I have built a good trusting relationship. I treat her with respect and things get better each time. I'm no fool thinking we a best buds but I know what she enjoys doing in her life. Our communication gets more fun with every date (before and after).

And yes, vaccination is getting more important though honestly, not a deal breaker. I have both my vaccines.

There! No ISO with this message. lol

To answer your question, most of the posts are ISO  or have you seen this person? It's not really interesting going here anymore. I agree, folks, let's see topics more and not just search and rescue.

The General Discussion Board ain't setting the world on fire either, and the Wisconsin board is just plain dead.

Too few providers.....sausage fest all the way around.  

One would hope, given the size and scope of Chicago, there would be a great deal to post.  

Perhaps a conversation on hotel practices in various parts of Chicagoland.  Airport versus burbs, etc.  Given COVID.

Local versus touring providers could be a good subject.  IMHO, touring offers variety, but I feel like I am on an assembly line sometimes.  I would rather be the one traveling and have an incall at my hotel.  That sort of conversation.

Let's be creative.  

We can always talk about the Cubs versus the Cardinals........

Many sex workers, IMHO, are finding there is less stress and good money in porn -(amateur film), website streaming or video, or cam girl. Classy new young escorts are rare. Times are changing gents.

GREAT TOPIC ASIANNYC

For a long time I have called my service Intimacy  therapy, and when I talk to people who arent in our community I explain what I do a little like this, depending on who iti is and their opinion on things.... "I DO NOT sell sex. I believe that intimacy is a  NEED not a I want. I see them, I want them,  I listen to them. I give them the gratification in someone wanting them."  More or less that is what I say and it is the complete truth. Most of my gentleman callers don't just want a wham bam thank you maam and they are out. They want to talk, cuddle, they want to please me, and they want to feel WANTED and ATTRACTIVE. I give them intimacy.

People outside the hobby also often will ask, Well aren't they all unattractive, or some question of the like. And I explain to them, and this is the GODS HONEST TRUTH, yeah some of them may not be my type when it comes to looks, but I find something about each and every person I meet that I am genuinely attracted to. Even in my personal relationships, I fall in love with who someone is, not what they look like. And, because I genuinely want my suitors to feel authentically wanted, I find AT LEAST (usually more) one thing that I am attracted to about each one of them.  

I also don't have a lot of friends because this lifestyle can be kind of isolating. So, I have very often formed REAL caring and loving relationships with my gentlemen that see me regularly or even somewhat regularly.  

I think it's my authenticity and my focus on this that sets me apart, a lot of girls don't think about, let alone, do these things.

This is, unfortunately true. I did amateur porn before covid, and since its started there has been a flood of newbies. Likewise, I have also seen the attitudes and personalities of the guys who are reaching out to me change. Someone recently asked me for a car date. I was blown away. Unfortunately,I made the decision that when I get some of the business I have planned up and running,I plan to take down my advertisements, simplify my website to nearly nothing, and only meet with people that I already know or knew about me long before any of this happened. I love what I do,it makes me very happy and fufilled, but now its liike answering texts or answering a phone call is exhaustingbecause they are usually the kind of negative crowd that you often hear ladies talk about. I can't say I never got these kinds of guys before, but it was ONCE IN A WHILE, now it is like every single time.

Busts, taking down backpage and craigslist, covid, and cam-girl websites were the killers....

Jamie Love chiming in on almost every subject sure doesn't help...

This kind of interaction is why this board is dead... attacking the few women who post on here makes other women want to stay away.

Thank you for making  those  great points

I like Jamie love and her opinions

I'm very happy thank you very much lol...and I never called you, are any other black a n-bitch. You really think TER would allow that sort of language?