Hi. Your comment may be one of the dumbest things I have ever read on this forum. You talk to some girl at a club and you owe her $50 for taking her time? What planet are you on?
So..first off, I wont mention the ladies name, but I'm sure plenty will figure out who I'm talking about.
I was out at a club downtown on Monday hanging out with some friends. I recognized a well reviewed escort standing between two men. I actually recognized her because I originally saw her on VH1 reality show a few years back. After that I saw that she had made a few porn films. Over the last 9 months I noticed that she is an escort who has reviews here.
Well..this was a strange encounter and a HUGE turnoff !!
I wanted to say hello because I was a fan of her when she was on the Reality show. I noticed she was standing between 2 men. One looked and dressed like a stereotypical pimp. I approached the other guy and told him that I recognized the girl he was with and if it was OK to say hello. I did this in case she was on a "date" The man replied that I could spreak to her briefly.
I walked up to her and told her I was a fan of hers on the such and such reality show, had enjoyed some of her porn flicks, and that I was a member of TER. I told her she looked gorgeous, etc. She replied: "Nice to meet you..if you are such a big fan why don't you buy me and my friends a bottle of champagne" I respectfully declined and apologized if I had bothered her. She said.."no not at all, but you can still buy us a bottle of champagne. I laughed it off, told her it was nice meeting her and walked away.
After this I saw her talking to her pimp / guy dressed like a pimp...she then walked over to me and said..." So you are on TER " ? I replied yes. She said.."do you ever want to see me?" I replied, maybe in the future. She said Im very expensive..$1000 for the hr ( Ive seen her rates advertised at 400-500 here on TER and on her website ) I said..OK...I will think about seeing you in the future.
She then says..."Why don't you give me $50?" I asked..for what ? She said "as a deposit for our future meeting...I laughed and said I told you I would think about it. She then says again..well give me $ 50...I again said for what ?? what do I get ?? She said "well you said you were a fan and might see me in the future, why not give me $ 50. I asked her: do I have the word sucker written on my forehead? I told her..look nice meeting you, I'm not interested.
I was stunned...a a provider who charged 400 -500 an hr begging a stranger for a bottle of champagne and then begging for $ 50
By the Way she looked gorgeous in person , but smelled horrible !! Like serious B.O...In desperate need of a shower...EWWWW
Definitely scratching her of my list
This girl definately need better "management"
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a certain crazy old "petite" provider, but she never did porn or would be on VH1, lol.
Personally, I would not have approached her in the first place. It was a public venue and if she was with anyone I would have steered clear. You would then not have been subject to her begging.
I agree with not approaching the first place, but mentioning porn and TER? No Way.
She is very high profile. Other casual men and women would have recognised her from the reality show
Okay.
But mention of porn and/or TER is a strictly BCD conversation.
Discretion anyone?
One of the men she was hanging out with actually approached me ( way before I saw her ) He was asking me what places in Chicago were hot and happening on a monday night
Personally, I would not have approached her in the first place. It was a public venue and if she was with anyone I would have steered clear. You would then not have been subject to her begging.
She may have been making a point that if you take up her time she expects some sort of pay. Thats the business.
saying hello should cost $50 or a bottle of champagne?
She may have not been begging, but it sounds like her self esteem is on cloud 9 and every hobbyist owes her for her every waking minute.
She sounds like she's full of herself. I'll bet the original post will cost her lots of future business too. I would guess that most everyone realizes exactly who he is talking about.
Hi. Your comment may be one of the dumbest things I have ever read on this forum. You talk to some girl at a club and you owe her $50 for taking her time? What planet are you on?
No...first she wanted $50 as a downpayment for seeing her in the future when I never mentioned anything about that. Second..she was saying I should just give it to her...JUST BECAUSE
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So if you ran into a sports star like Derrick Rose etc.. or a tv star, movie star..etc, and you talked to them... you would pay them for their time ????
I wouldnt pay her either but some providers do feel they should be paid for their time. She may have just figured that since u interrupted her free time to talk about business she should charge you for her time. I am not saying that is right. The lines for these ladies get grey there.
She was at 400 then. We were set up to meet up at a time and then she postponed an additional 2 hours (maybe 2 hours before the scheduled time). About 2 hours passed and she sent a text saying she'd have to reschedule... I can't remember my exact reply, but it was something to confirm that no time that day would work and she didn't reply. I never contacted her again. I was on the fence about seeing her even before then and that was reason enough for me to just pass all together. Bumping the rate to 500 was just icing on the cake. IIRC, there was extremely lax screening as well.
A porn star who was on a VH1 reality show and escorts - got me.
Was she laughing or smiling when she was begging for the champagne and $50? Maybe she was feeling you out as a way of drumming up business. She figured TER = easy mark, too bad she didn't figure BO was a huge turnoff, lol. Unless you're into that sort of thing...
Ok...some hints.
She was on a reality tv show called "For the Love of Ray J "
Ray J is singer Brandy's brother. He is famous for being in the celebrity sex tape with Kim Kardasian
Also..she was pretty serious..the convo for the $ 50 went like this:
Are you Italian
No..Im Greek
Give me $ 50
For what ?
As a deposit for when we see each other..I have a place in Chicago and Miam..but Im very expensive
$400-500 an hr ..right ?
No..$1000
OK
So give me the 50
Why would i give you 50
So I can secure an appointment with you
Im not sure I want to see you and if your charging 1000 you are out of my range
Thats OK ..Give me the 50 anyway
Does it say sucker on my forehead ? Why would I hand you $50..what do I get out of it
Well you said your a fan of mine.. Just give me $50
No..nice meeting you..Im going back to my friends now
Was she laughing or smiling when she was begging for the champagne and $50? Maybe she was feeling you out as a way of drumming up business. She figured TER = easy mark, too bad she didn't figure BO was a huge turnoff, lol. Unless you're into that sort of thing...
Google wasn't my friend before this hint...
Pretty clear she's full of herself and needs a shower more than the $50 which is probably what I would have suggested if she'd kept up that BS. OTOH, there's no way in hell I would have approached her with two guys around - that took balls GG and congrats on not letting those big tits cloud your judgement. In her mind, any guy would give her $50 just for the pleasure of talking to her and I bet that act works well most of the time. I doubt the thought ever crossed her mind that the guy she was playing could be LE - nope, never.
Lesson learned, it's not the best idea to approach providers in a public place, even outrageous porn stars who love publicity.
I know who that is! Lmao... No one cares about her in Chicago nightlife esp. people that has anything to do w/ "the scene". I've seen her tons of times,nsfivai those
never spoke once.
You are correct sir.
I have come across providers "in a public place " before. I've never approached them, but have given a smile and nod when they made eye contact with me.
Yep, being stinky is an awful turnoff. That would be a dealbreaker for me. GG, we all appreciate your balls for approaching her.
Good looking young woman, but not my type.
I would maintain that you do. I do not believe you had any right to approach her in public.
You would have been irate, if she had come up to you in a social situation?
That was one of my initial thoughts too. However, one of the guys that she was with approached him before he even saw her.
He says he approached the guy in his post.
"One of the men she was hanging out with actually approached me ( way before I saw her ) He was asking me what places in Chicago were hot and happening on a monday night"
Flip flop?
I was outside having a ciggarette..The guy came to me and asked what was happening on a Monday ( what clubs were busy )...same guy I saw later hanging with the lady.
Flip flop?