So the info on the so called "private" sites are just as corrupt as anything posted on NBL.
As I posted earlier, at one time these lists offered a valuable tool to both sides. However, over the years BOTH sides simply use these sites as fodder in many cases. And as I said, the garbage that is posted on one site tends to get migrated to those other sites.
What many on both sides have done is create connections with others in the game...where any serious info is exchanged. Certainly leaves out the folks who don't know others in the biz...but also eliminates the incredible nonsense of these public and private sites disseminating useless garbage.
As for ruining some john with this...not likely. Most of the crap that shows up is just a user handle, a toss away email address, burner phone number. Easy enough to get new ones. The gals just change their names, phone and email as well. Where some moron posts up real info about someone...easy enough to get that crap taken down as well. Oftentimes it's garbage and some type of retribution on either/both sides.
The really sad part is that with some of the nefarious souls (on both sides) running around doing this crap...even the NBL is overwhelmed with idiotic posts. So trying to determine if there is a real threat...well, when a system has been corrupted why would you/I trust anything it has to offer?
I trust that eventually someone will build a better system to offer some serious protection for those who need it. As of now...just backchannel with those you actually know and trust.
Posted By: Sage of Chicago
in which the gentlemans info becomes public for what he did to a provider, like you can do a google search with his name and it comes up. Not a great way to get a new job right(new jobs Google Search you after your interview). There also is a perception that so many flaky ladies NCNS the guys that NCNS really is not a big deal, however those of us who are not flaky and ALWAYS show up or call ASAP if there is an issue know that NCNS is a HUGE problem and costs tons of $(hotel, time we can't give other, parking, gas). Not saying the guys do not incur these charges when they get NCNS, they do. However it was not that lady who flaked on you before she was there and ready, so it is simply not ok.
Ok, and this has happened to me more then 10rs ago. Just because girl X NCNS you doesn't mean it is ok, so if you NCNS girl Y she is going to report you. Explaining that because someone else stood you up and you didn't think it was a big deal doesn't mean it is ok to do to anyone else. NCNS is something we have to deal with in the industry, however it doesn't mean we have to let guys take those $$ out of our pockets to accommodate them without any ROI.
Oh and FYI to the guy, most of the blacklists out there are private and I think even NBL changed it because they want people to pay for memberships in order to see their black lists(they were free and public for a little while, but now are pay, lol great way to get people used to using your service and then make money off it after a little while). So you do not have to worry about your info being smeared all over everywhere in a black list post, however we will know via BC...
So just say no to NCNS
