Sure, here goes.
First of all pubic lice, crabs, lives in that hair. While this is the easiest std to treat, it is also an unpleasant reminder of a previous sexual encounter. I have had to make that phone call once, and it is pretty embarrassing. I had no idea that I had the little critters until a different lady called me and told me to see a doctor. The blonde and I go to Lifestyle resorts and parties a few times a year. 95%+ of the people are shaved. To be fair, there haven't been studies that show shaving reduces reduces crab infestations. We do play with a couple that are both MDs. They are firm on the no pubic hair and have a list of reasons, that is one. Shaving may help, can't hurt so that is why I take that position. The other factor is your pubic hair picks up the flotsam and jetsam of your daily "eliminations." Dried feces, tiny pieces of tp and dried remnants of urine can all be present. Can make for a bad taste and visual presentation . Face it, people have different levels of acceptable personal hygiene. Not everyone takes multiple showers a day. That's why it is one of my rules. The blonde had the opposite experience of yours. She doesn't have much natural hair so she didn't do anything for years. Finally got a wax after losing a bet. She came home from work and told me, "she hadn't felt that clean" at the end of the day. Corporate VP so she may dress more formally, then a lot of women. To each his own. I'm not saying I am right or wrong. Because I tend to have multiple partners in a year, I do everything I can reduce the chance of catching somethingSince growing my bush quite a bit, this conversation has come up for me a lot. I imagine it has been discussed on here before, but I would love to hear what everyone's thoughts are on pubic hair!
I'll share my little bit:
When I hit puberty and saw pubic hair growing my reaction was "FUCK THIS!" and shaved it off. As I've gotten older I've expanded my little landing strip to a pretty full bush. (I shave the labia/anal and bikini line areas - I affectionately describe it as "party in the front, business in the back")
I feel like body hair has become more attractive to me as I've aged. There's a few factors that come to mind; body acceptance, hair indicating the "naughty areas", and feeling like WOMAN!!!!
I do not enjoy a mouthful of hair when with lady partners though, so that's part of why I shave the business side...
Your thoughts/stories?
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I survived the 1970 s when women had bushes the size of DR Js NBA Afro. I like it clean shaven or waxed. A small landing strip is fine but anything more is not for me.
To me it is cleaner and more hygienic. In particular if you have been out and about and don't have time to freshen up.
I return the favor as I shave my junk and keep my chest well groomed.
To each his own. If I see all natural in an ad, I move on to the next one.
I'll share my little bit:
When I hit puberty and saw pubic hair growing my reaction was "FUCK THIS!" and shaved it off. As I've gotten older I've expanded my little landing strip to a pretty full bush. (I shave the labia/anal and bikini line areas - I affectionately describe it as "party in the front, business in the back")
I feel like body hair has become more attractive to me as I've aged. There's a few factors that come to mind; body acceptance, hair indicating the "naughty areas", and feeling like WOMAN!!!!
I do not enjoy a mouthful of hair when with lady partners though, so that's part of why I shave the business side...
Your thoughts/stories?
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What makes it more clean and hygienic?
I used to have a similar feeling when I was very young, but as I grew older and acquired more experienced partners, I felt they had more awareness on grooming and cleanliness.
So, I'm interested to hear your experience.
Sure, here goes.
First of all pubic lice, crabs, lives in that hair. While this is the easiest std to treat, it is also an unpleasant reminder of a previous sexual encounter. I have had to make that phone call once, and it is pretty embarrassing. I had no idea that I had the little critters until a different lady called me and told me to see a doctor.
The blonde and I go to Lifestyle resorts and parties a few times a year. 95%+ of the people are shaved. To be fair, there haven't been studies that show shaving reduces reduces crab infestations. We do play with a couple that are both MDs. They are firm on the no pubic hair and have a list of reasons, that is one. Shaving may help, can't hurt so that is why I take that position.
The other factor is your pubic hair picks up the flotsam and jetsam of your daily "eliminations." Dried feces, tiny pieces of tp and dried remnants of urine can all be present. Can make for a bad taste and visual presentation . Face it, people have different levels of acceptable personal hygiene. Not everyone takes multiple showers a day. That's why it is one of my rules.
The blonde had the opposite experience of yours. She doesn't have much natural hair so she didn't do anything for years. Finally got a wax after losing a bet. She came home from work and told me, "she hadn't felt that clean" at the end of the day. Corporate VP so she may dress more formally, then a lot of women.
To each his own. I'm not saying I am right or wrong. Because I tend to have multiple partners in a year, I do everything I can reduce the chance of catching something
just love a woman with a full bush!! I am old school but to me it is just so natural and such a turn on. I know I am in the minority on this one but I also love it when a woman grows out and show the naturalness of her underarms. I have no idea why this is such a turn-on to me, all I know is that it is. I have no problem admitting this and I am so glad when a "natural" lady, such as Zoey Zacquery, comes to this area. My guess is that there are many "closet" bush and hair lovers out there but they are just to shy or embarrassed to admit it! If not, I am sure that natural ladies would not be in business or be able to charge the rates that they do.
I personally do not enjoy totally "natural"... but I definitely get the arousal! A woman's natural scent and softness in her hair is erotic.
However, for me, the armpits, legs, or really hairy arms are too much for me. Thats where it pushes from softness to HAIRY on my scale.
Also, I like the feeling of hair, but I don't like it to get in the way, so I like when the labia area is trimmed and the bikini line is shaved.
I like "groomed" I suppose... it shows that a woman puts effort and awareness into her body and takes pride in it. Not that otherwise suggests she doesn't, but that's what it triggers for me!
I think what you have going on is perfect with the "business" and "party" end. I think that a lot of us guys equate health and cleanliness to the appearance of the provider's "play area." Although it's probably hypocritical as I bet you providers see some overgrown amazon forests in some of the dudes that show up. I manscape and believe that it is part of holding up my end of the bargain. I also enjoy the way it looks on my body. Although I'm pretty sure every guy will have his own tastes and idea of what is enjoyable pubic hair on a lady, I think most of us agree that what looks good enough to eat, usually is. Also, If the way you have it is enjoyable for you and inspires confidence then that makes it an even better experience.
But, bushes do vary in size. I have a very petite one in my back yard, in fact
I do agree with your point. As I mentioned in my response to the above, I feel like some grooming and trimming really represents an attention to self-care and cleanliness.
As far as dudes go - yes! Some have the jungle growing halfway up their wanker! Not pleasurable in the mouth! I do like that to be trimmed down as well, but I'm not as much of a fan of totally shaven. I like the masculinity of hair. That being said... Shaved won't make me dislike a nice cock!
Anything can be made catchy with a little creativity.
maybe but its funny as hell!
I assume you would keep it neatly trimmed, which is what is most important.
When I first started exploring my sexuality, I had body hair and I loved it. It was quite a scandal in my high school, of course, that I didn't shave my legs. We had to wear a schoolgirl uniform so I would wear knee high socks just to keep everyone from bothering me about it.
I've always been a huge fan of pheromones and loved the way my body hair held mine.
When I became a provider, I thought I had to shave because it's what I saw all the other providers doing. So I did that for about three years. Then when I moved to NYC I decided to go All Natural and see what would happen. The end result? I love it. My clients love it. My body looks great with dark public and underarm hair to match my dark eyes and curly dark hair. I love the way I smell when I'm getting it on with someone and I'm breaking a sweat. Yum.
My girlfriend Tori also has a "full bush", but she's a strawberry blonde so it's a bit more like golden peach fuzz than my wild dark curly bush. I used to trim mine more carefully, but I stopped after being begged by several clients to let it grow even wilder!
Awesome!
What would you say to people about the whole "cleanliness" argument?
I feel like I don't have much sense of it because I still trim up pretty tight. Do you think there is more needed for actual cleanliness?
From what I understand, pubic hair actually keeps your vagina cleaner by protecting it. Do you have any info on that?
Also, I've always thought that if a woman is not cleaning herself properly, it probably does not matter if she has hair or not, it may just be more noticeable with pubic hair - but don't blame the bush!
Yay for hairy bush and hairy arm-pits. They just drive me nuts especially the hairy 'pits, full of woman's natural aura. I absolutely LOVE a woman's natural scent.
I find, anecdotally, that my partners are more "turned on" by me when I let my arm pits and bush go a bit free. Again, being anglo-saxon as hell, I don't grow a lot of hair anywhere on my body. Seeing as hair has a tendency to capture smell, I'm sure that's what's going on
Ok, When I first read this I thought of Stephen Lynch's song "Medieval Bush" If you haven't heard it listen to it on YouTube its a great funny song. As for Bush I actually kinda like it. Only if its trimmed the way Lola describes. Sometime it can go too far but for the most part I really like it.
I say go for it
Party in the front, business in the back, for sure. I ebb and flow with my bush being there or not, and currently it's there in all of it's red glory (yes, kids. Natural strawberry blonde). I'm pretty anglo-saxon, so while I definitely grow a bush, it's not as full as i wish it could be.
The cleanliness argument is just silly. Ingrown hairs, the scabbing and aftermath that comes with those ingrowns, nicks, cuts, and the rest is just not fun or sexy, nor hygienic unless properly taken care of.
Viva La Bush!
For sure! That's a really good argument for long-term health as well. If you're dinged up that's not safe.
And it's way easier to shave the labia area IMO, and the mound is where it gets a little rough.
I pile the carpet/drapes contrast!
Mine is dark brown with a little auburn but when I'm feeling adventurous I dye it to match my hair lol.
I like the Bare Look. My girl is totally clean shaven. It's feels awesome. I shave too. She seems to like it.
You're not bare cuz you shave, you're bare cuz you haven't reached puberty yet.
Idk I've never had lots down there... And when I do/did have it, it's str8 .. No curly pubs & not much at all... So I prefer it shaved & smooth like a baby's bottom!!!
Saying, "party in the front, business in the back."!
Personally, since I'm a visual creature, I like to see lips
I also just like it to be friendly for visitors with no hair hindering their trip...
XXX-Giselle Parker
I'll share my little bit:
When I hit puberty and saw pubic hair growing my reaction was "FUCK THIS!" and shaved it off. As I've gotten older I've expanded my little landing strip to a pretty full bush. (I shave the labia/anal and bikini line areas - I affectionately describe it as "party in the front, business in the back")
I feel like body hair has become more attractive to me as I've aged. There's a few factors that come to mind; body acceptance, hair indicating the "naughty areas", and feeling like WOMAN!!!!
I do not enjoy a mouthful of hair when with lady partners though, so that's part of why I shave the business side...
Your thoughts/stories?
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No BUSH for I don't care for hair wow I even rhyme lol. truth be told I love when a woman is shaven clean all around smooth skin that for myself I do the same. has someone said: on this post already the heat is on but I prefer to know up front .
No tall grass in my field thank you
Truth be told, teenager of the 70's.
I guess I am very nostalgic for the Playboy Bunnies with tan lines and full bush. They highlighted the naughty but nice and forbidden areas of a woman's body. I remember fondly, after several dates, being allowed to explore the shrubbery. It was sensual to me as my fingers moved over the lawn to the playground.
Anyway, I go for a lawn around the playground, but the playground should be clean and free of grass. I manscape but do not shave completely just cause given my age and physical shape, it would look awful (think Pillsbury Dough Boy) .
i never did like hair in my food..
Nothing wrong with a bush. A woman should have a little or a lot of bush. Its what separates girls from ladies imho
....on non-gingers hmmmm no more than closely trimmed.
Lola, I would love feeling a tickle on my upper lip from you. My general preference is shaved but I am fine as long as I don't have to hack my way through the enchanted forest.
I had likr a bunch of people not believe I was a real redhead. I literally have a small little patch but nicely trimmed that I keepto show that I am a natural redhead. I used to think it was gross when I was younger. Now. I actually like it.
"party in the front, business in the back" says it best! As long as the business side is nice and smooth the party side can be wild, trimmed, shaped or a perfect landing strip.
Oh, wrong Bush.
But hey, I love bush, and I'm always glad it's a search filter on TER. Unfortunately, TER doesn't update the initial post, so you may ask for natural or partially shaved and still end up with shaved upon meeting.
From my perspective I want to be with a woman. Bush means woman. Shaved is little girl. Plus, unless it's a frequent wax, it's stubble and skin irritation left behind, and that's just distracting.
You will be rewarded for having your bush....
I love bush, and I'm always glad it's a search filter on TER. Unfortunately, TER doesn't update the initial post, so you may ask for natural or partially shaved and still end up with shaved upon meeting.
From my perspective I want to be with a woman. Bush means woman. Shaved is little girl. Plus, unless it's a frequent wax, it's stubble and skin irritation left behind, and that's just distracting.
You will be rewarded for having your bush....
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