Hey Brother, I'm at an age where I can relate.  Best of luck with your recovery.  Here are a couple of ladies I've seen who were very helpful and understanding of the issues a mature gentleman might have.  

Allie Cat - TER ID   307812   She is patient, helpful and DETERMINED that I should have a good time.  Not to mention gorgeous.

Rachelina - TER ID: 105326   She travels here often.  Very nice lady, very skilled and gets me to home base every time.

So funny, I actually contacted Rachelina before posting my message.  I had a great time with her last year and thought she would be very understanding.  Too bad she won't be in the Chicago area until early October.  I appreciate the response!

Yes!

I have had several regulars experience the same & had awesome dry orgasms. No mess is the positive part.

Sounds like a fun time to me. I enjoy getting to know someone and have had very similar experiences in the past and as recently as last week.  

Chemo, injuries, surgeries, age, weight, etc. A lot can can cause some major behavioral changes in "the goods." I'm quite fond of edging, and I find that's easily adapted to your kind of situation. But, I'd wager any companion who has been around a while (at least 5 or more years) will have experienced enough gentlemen with medical or age related needs to be both understanding and experienced with your situation. Happy Hunting!

This is actually not an unusual issue to come across! I have several friends who've gone through similar experiences. This also happens as we age, change medications, etc. Just because the erection stops doesn't mean the fun has to!

Take a look, see if I fit the bill. Happy to discuss any specifics as well.

Good luck on your search!