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Question for all you CHI ladies.  The following situation that I'm describing is something I'm experiencing currently with one of my ATF's and I want to get ALL your thoughts and opinions. Would you ladies every start accepting checks as a form of donation/payment from a regular client that knew your  real name and was a client that didn't even live in Chicago, but came to visit you whenever he was in Chicago. Also, he would give you the check after the appointment/session was over (appointments are usually on the weekends) and he leaves the same day to fly out back to his home state, so you probably couldn't deposit the check until Monday.  Appointments/Seasions are usually every two weeks and are extended which is the reasonin behind writing a check instead of large sums of cash. I won't be specific, but were probably talking about a few grand every few weeks.

Thanks for all your input !

Angela_Petite2485 reads

Why would you want to do it that way?  Why can't you go to the bank and get cash ?

What do you need this kind of receipt for ?

( knodding head in wonder)

Angela x

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ROGM361 reads

Why pay by Check? You're just to leave a Trail that someone can find, especially if you're Married. A Check is just too Risky. Pay Cash and you're fine.

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jgelement360 reads

Angela, let's forget about "the reason why" I prefer to pay with checks, just for 1 minute. What I would like to know from someone such as yourself, someone who is a reputable, respected girl...would you start accepting checks from an ATF Client, who knows your real name, has seen you 15-20+ times in the past 1.5 years, and is obviously a regular repeat client? And again, the checks are not being cashed in advance, but 1-2 days after the appointment is over. Is this something you would ever be comfortable with

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Angela_Petite2322 reads

First of all, I wouldn't let someone know my real name intentionally or utter my identity to someone even if they asked . And guys do wind up asking .  Your answer? No. Once the check is givin , the receivers drivers license and account number are all recorded on microfilm . Outing herself to someone who isn't part of her civie world is dangerous and puts her in a very dangerous situation for identity theft , stalking , and even ratting her out .  

 

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Angela, let's forget about "the reason why" I prefer to pay with checks, just for 1 minute. What I would like to know from someone such as yourself, someone who is a reputable, respected girl...would you start accepting checks from an ATF Client, who knows your real name, has seen you 15-20+ times in the past 1.5 years, and is obviously a regular repeat client? And again, the checks are not being cashed in advance, but 1-2 days after the appointment is over. Is this something you would ever be comfortable with ?  
   
 

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thomas8888339 reads

NO way I would take the check if I am a provider.  Read between the fine line... ( so you probably couldn't deposit the check until Monday ).... That mean after He fuck you and when you deposit the check on Monday... The check will be bounced.  

You are out of luck.................

Good for him......  Free fuck for him,.....

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Gemma Coreana280 reads

I don't even remember last time I saw a check...  Or seen someone write one...  Def would take a cashiers check or money order but not  a personal check... It's too risky...

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jgelement315 reads

Gemma972, not even from your ATF Client? That you've seen 15-20+ times, lets say in the past 1.5 years?

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Gemma Coreana276 reads

Seriously my 2 ATFS prob don't do checks.. They are very tech savy... one of them advised me to start paying my rent electronically via my bank so i dnt have to hassle with the mail/post office peeps... When they don't have cash freely... They do thing electronically it always works out...... (FYI I only do this for 2 guys who are loyal loyal...)

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cece283 reads

I did this recently from a regular who has seen me for almost 2 years and its been over 2 weeks now that I cant cash the check. I have had excuse after excuse, I have to pay rent, I got arrested cuz my plates were expired, I'll drop by with the cash at such and such time don't cash it.  

Well he got the free fuck, I have a bill to pay that I now how to re-budget and the relationship is ruined. He needless to say is no longer a regular and the discussions that have been over text and the phone have been edgy at best.

NO WAY NO HOW .... NEVER AGAIN!!!

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jgelement210 reads

CECE, that's unfortunate, sorry to hear that. I would tell ur former client...."Don't write checks you can't cash"

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Tori.Davenport365 reads

I am NOT ashamed to admit that I have a handful of boyfriends (clients) who I trust completely and have accepted checks, credit cards and Chase QuickPay. In fact, some of them know my real name and home address and send birthday gifts. I really don't see what the big deal is and have NEVER had a problem.

Honestly, I'm very happy to have this kind of relationship with some of the gentlemen I spend time with.

xo,
Tori~

 

Posted By: jgelement
Question for all you CHI ladies.  The following situation that I'm describing is something I'm experiencing currently with one of my ATF's and I want to get ALL your thoughts and opinions. Would you ladies every start accepting checks as a form of donation/payment from a regular client that knew your  real name and was a client that didn't even live in Chicago, but came to visit you whenever he was in Chicago. Also, he would give you the check after the appointment/session was over (appointments are usually on the weekends) and he leaves the same day to fly out back to his home state, so you probably couldn't deposit the check until Monday.  Appointments/Seasions are usually every two weeks and are extended which is the reasonin behind writing a check instead of large sums of cash. I won't be specific, but were probably talking about a few grand every few weeks.  
   
 Thanks for all your input !

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jgelement294 reads

Great feedback Tori, I really appreciate your input. I'm definitely one of those kind of trust worthy clients, so I was just wanting to get feedback from both ends of the spectrums. I knew there had to be other girls out there that have had good experience with ATF's they can trust and share their personal info with. ATF clients which providers can build that kind of relationship with and develop that kind of trust with, are on a TOTALLY different level than any other client. I would imagine ALL providers wish they had more of those.  Glad to hear you have a few.  

Thanks!!

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Tori.Davenport223 reads

Posted By: jgelement
Great feedback Tori, I really appreciate your input. I'm definitely one of those kind of trust worthy clients, so I was just wanting to get feedback from both ends of the spectrums. I knew there had to be other girls out there that have had good experience with ATF's they can trust and share their personal info with. ATF clients which providers can build that kind of relationship with and develop that kind of trust with, are on a TOTALLY different level than any other client. I would imagine ALL providers wish they had more of those.  Glad to hear you have a few.  
   
 Thanks!!

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Jamie.Solo317 reads

I have a very select few regulars that I would trust in a situation like this.  

One time, a very good regular, wanted to see me and said he only had half of the donation - could he give me the rest a few days later. Because I trust him, I said yes. I knew there was a chance that I was going to get burned, but I took the risk. And a few days later we met he gave me what he owed.  

I wouldn't just do this with a friend who seen me a few times, but a client that I have built a very strong report with, I would definitely do. I guess it just depends on how much trust is there.  

Yet, at the same time, I can understand the others' apprehension. It is very easy to cancel a check and therefore stiff the provider. But that's why its something that I would only offer to the friends that I trust immensely. I think right now, the number of friends that I would trust in a situation like this is, at tops, 3.  

Just my .02 cents for whatever it is worth.  

J

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1718324232 reads

I dont have a dog in this fight.  But, the cancelled check is returned with the endorsement, bank and signature, routing number and account.  ???

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jgelement237 reads

Jamie, thanks for the feedback. You actually bring up an interesting scenario, which I never thought about before.  

With the situation you just described (client only having enough for half the donation), from a Client perspective, to me that is actually more risky than recieving a check which is for the full donation because from my perspective when I write a check, its good 100% no doubt about it. I would never set up an appointment with a provider if I didn't have the cash flow at that exact moment in time. And yes, I agree with you, you could have been burned on the other half owed to you.  So you must really trust that client, which is awesome.  

However, from a Providers perspective, receiving half the donation up front is better than being potentially burned on the entire amount of the check.  And when i give the check to my ATF, its always at the very end of our extended appointment when I'm saying good bye and about to head to the airport and then she usually can't deposit it until the following Monday due to her schedule and the limited bank hours on Saturdays and Sundays. So there is obviously a lot of risk for her.  

The bottom line here is trust is paramount.

I'm just trying to get a feel for how many clients providers actually have which they trust to the extent I described above, in which they are willing to accept a check at the end of an appointment, which is for a sizable amount, and then wait 1-2 days to deposit it.  

Interesting topic, not sure if it has ever been discussed before

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Erik_S185 reads

I'm not a provider and I don't have any thoughts about it except one. With all the ATM's around that now accept check deposits, it's very possible that your girl could walk across the street after your visit and deposit your check before you got in your car. I don't know why that delay is important to you but I think it's unrealistic.

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Erik_S220 reads

In my previous post I mentioned quick ATM deposits. I don't know why I didn't think about how I deposit most handwritten checks using my smartphone -- it only takes a minute. The money from that paper check could be in her account before he gets out the front door of her building. I honestly don't understand why anyone would write a check unless he just hadn't thought it through or for some reason wanted to leave a paper trail. For what it's worth.

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jgelement215 reads

Erik_S, I'm single in my mid 20's, so therefore I don't get what you mean by leaving a "Paper Trail"? I don't have a wife, I manage my own Finances. My ATF pays taxes.  

I use checks because I see my ATF every 2 weeks and I give her a Few grand each time I see her, in addition to the occasional 12 Hour and 24 Hour rendezvous. I hate carrying around a lot of cash. She isn't that tech savy with regards to depositing checks via her phone, neither am I be to quite frank, and I'm not sure if a lot of girls even know how to electronically deposit checks via their mobile device. Plus, ONLY certain financial institutions have this feature you speak of

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Tobi Telford278 reads

Didn't seem to affect him too much, since he got reelected.

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Tobi Telford214 reads

I prefer not to be involved in any sort of paper trail. Regulars are awesome and much appreciated, but anyone can turn rotten in the blink of an eye.  

Posted By: jgelement
Question for all you CHI ladies.  The following situation that I'm describing is something I'm experiencing currently with one of my ATF's and I want to get ALL your thoughts and opinions. Would you ladies every start accepting checks as a form of donation/payment from a regular client that knew your  real name and was a client that didn't even live in Chicago, but came to visit you whenever he was in Chicago. Also, he would give you the check after the appointment/session was over (appointments are usually on the weekends) and he leaves the same day to fly out back to his home state, so you probably couldn't deposit the check until Monday.  Appointments/Seasions are usually every two weeks and are extended which is the reasonin behind writing a check instead of large sums of cash. I won't be specific, but were probably talking about a few grand every few weeks.  
   
 Thanks for all your input !

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jgelement223 reads

If your regulars were really true ATF's (like myself) you would never have to worry about them "turning rotten in the blink of an eye" IMHO

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