makes no difference..if it doesnt bother them..why should it bother me?..
Posted By: superD8
If a provider tells you in conversation that she's married, are you less likely to see her again? Or, does it matter to you at all?
What percentage of providers are married?? Less than 10%???
If her being married ( or the fact that she has sex with one man more than others) bothers a hobbyist wonder what he really thinks of the 40+ who reviewed her too lol! ?
Posted By: macdaddy1944
makes no difference..if it doesnt bother them..why should it bother me?..
Posted By: superD8
If a provider tells you in conversation that she's married, are you less likely to see her again? Or, does it matter to you at all?
What percentage of providers are married?? Less than 10%???
Turnabout is fair play. We might even understand one another better. No issue with me.
actually I prefer it. they're probably a little more stable the way.
I would guess that over 90% in the hobby are married so why would it matter if she is.
If I were to every get again it would have to be with a men who loves to share.
I would get bored if I was stuck with just one.... (wink)
As for the comment about married providers being more Mentally stable, I think that is not at all true... I need some facts on your findings?
I have been single for over 13 years and I enjoy life more now than I ever have.
Kisses
JC
I would see a Provider MORE if I knew she were married! Who doesn't get turned on by a sexy swinger wife? LOL
One word.... Bebedoll... nuff said.
Don't want to die from lead poisoning 
There has been some drama when civvie life crosses hobbying life and an unsuspecting SO gets involved. As
long as that is not in the picture, I don't worry about it.
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if the hubby doesn't know she's doing it. Even if he does, it's weird and I'd be wondering when he was going to show up and beat the shit out of me.
Think I'll pass.
Because we've never worried about YOUR SO's doing something to us- oh, we have never been threatened by one of your psycho women....like we need YOUR SOs to be 1500 miles away... Thanks for the laugh guys- you made my night!!!!
Xoxoxo
VC
Posted By: superD8
If a provider tells you in conversation that she's married, are you less likely to see her again? Or, does it matter to you at all?
What percentage of providers are married?? Less than 10%???
Yes, he was an excellent philosopher but was he a philanderer?
Simple solution. If you're afraid of married guys's SO's, then don't see married guys. All some of us are saying is we're uncomfortable seeing married providers so WE DON'T see married providers. You can do the same if you're so afraid of their wives.
And this is where I tell the hobbyist im Single even though Im married. Its none of the hobbyists buisness. My husband and I are swingers and he Moonlights as male escort. Still not anything that particular hobbyist needs to know. Just like I really don't care that they have wives. At that moment all that should matter are the two people about to share an intimateexperience.
What we don't know can't hurt us. Well, yes it could but we'd still rather not know or it may affect our, umm, performance.
Actually a very high majority of companions are either married or in a relationship and/or dating.
Regardless if we tell you or not.
It's not like we're wanton women who do not have normal lives! LMAO
We all carry on just the same as anyone else does...with families, and partners and sometimes other jobs or careers too.
It's generally safe to assume too, that most of the companions in committed relationship/married have partners that also are in the know about what they do for a living.
I am sure some lie about it, sure.
By and large we're all pretty honest with our partners about our jobs as sex workers 
I have always been upfront about my career.
The incredible men & women I have had committed relationships with all understood the boundaries that surrounded my job, and saw it as that....A JOB.
They don't get to know details about my clients, just like my clients do not get to know intimate details about my (enter the blank) person.
I would of never expect majority of the providers are in a relationship.... Idk if I could do this if I was steadily dating someone.... I would feel like I would be cheating on him... That's me..., lol
I am the same way, and no man I would want to date would date an active provider. I would think he had a screw loose to do so, if he was not into the swinging/open relationship scene. I don't want to date a man into that type of shit, or I would have my pick of them right here.
you'll need pussy-expansion surgery or we'll have a very unhappy marriage
So if a provider is married or in a relationship with another man or woman, so be it. they have a great open relationship. good for them.
All of us others are too damn chickenshit to admit it.
I've had great times with many providers who were married, in a relationship or otherwise.
There is one provider friend I've seen who had a very open marriage, and confided it was in trouble, he went into deep depression after losing his job....which meant she needed to be the bread winner. I'm not sure where it is today......
There is another provider I see who, not long ago, introduced me to her BF... he's a great guy.........he tells her he doesn't mind cause he needs help keeping her fulfilled..
Smart man if you ask me
And with a small penis no doubt.
It was shot off in a gun fight.
It was what attracted her to him.
Yes, if I were married or dating (which I would never do whilst sucking strange d*ck for a living), he would in fact be below average in that dept.
She does have a big mouth!
I imagine your cop hubby would have a small member and a big car, both of which are exactly what you want, LOL. Here little dickey...
and i'd love to see one of them,but I won't because of the s.o.(I think you have to be bat-shit crazy to have your wife do this and iam never gone take the chance iam going to be the one that he goes "postal"on.period.
I prefer un-married myself, prefer not committing adultery.
Posted By: superD8
If a provider tells you in conversation that she's married, are you less likely to see her again? Or, does it matter to you at all?
What percentage of providers are married?? Less than 10%???
people ask me how did I learn doing this or that, sometimes I say, "Maybe being married three times taught me these things." I haven't been married for many years now and cannot imaging being one, while doing what I do. They say, chefs don't cook at home. Maybe this statement isn't true, but it would relate to me. The dynamics are different, also, I wouldn't want to deal with his jealousy and drama. Husbands and boyfriends can feel very insecure sometimes, competitive, and possessive. Some married ladies would keep a secret about what they do, but that comes with the guilt sooner or later. I think it's very unprofessional to initiate conversation with the client about your personal life (e.g. telling him you're in marriage or relationship with someone), unless he is asking.
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