When a guy books an hour appointment, what is an acceptable amount of time, past the hour for a guy to get out?  Normally, if I don't have another appointment right behind the one happening... (with another lady of course), I will wait 5-10 minutes and call the room.  

Most guys are considerate of the time and when their time is up, they just leave.  However, many guys just don't know how to take a hint.  It would not be so bad except I almost never have a guy leave before the hour is up which is totally cool.  I have had guys take an additional 10 minutes past the 10 minute cushion I gave them and have actually had a guy tell me one time that his time should end at an hour at which time he should be allowed an additional 15-20 minutes to shower and dress and leave.

What is the proper ettiquette here?

10-15 min's is more than enough time to S,S,S (shit, shave, shower) what is he, a woman!!

I worked hourly wages a good portion of my life, if we went into the next hour we got paid for it. A 10 minute grace period should be the maximum IMHO

thats fine but a provider should at least hint its almost time to go and if 10 mins after happens they should be verrrry thankful

When it' over it's over, the guy he could be making wait could be me!  All the girl has to say is "I have other people waiting."

...common courtesy should be absolutely, unequivocally, without question, dad gummit...NO MORE THAN 10 MINUTES!!!!  Anything else is simply uncourteous...unless of course the provider doesn't mind...  

I think that 5-10 minutes over the time scheduled for should be the max, even if the guy is showering. We have to be respectful of other peoples time.

If you book an hour and you want more time and that time is available you should make the arrangement before that hour is up. You should never make a lady ask you to leave I am sure it would be embarressing to her.If your bad with time you might want to ask to be notified of the time so you have 10 minutes to clean up.

On many occasions I have read that the person was upset because he was pushed out the door in 55 minutes why would anyone expect free time.

I have however met friends who might keep me over a little for more fun because they had nothing else to do and next time I booked more time.

10 - 15 is plenty, perhaps too much. For those chronic lingerers, instruct the ladies to be firm about it. Most guys will get it no problems.

5 - 15 minutes sounds like a luxury.

Unless the provider has time to kill and they are just talking, hanging out?

I know that's not the scenario you provided, but I've spent time with a few independents who seem to enjoy some company. At times.

I appreciate you asking, because it's better to be perceived as providing a service versus just doing business.

I guess it is up to the lady. I had been hoping to meet a lady that didn't treat it so much like a business (other than we don't need to see each other outside of planned appointments, was with a lady i really like and before the hour we both started chatting and joking around. About 1/2 past the hour I jumped up and appologized and asked if I should pay her for the extra half hour. She laughed and said no and said she would like to continue the discussion. She is now the lady I see regularly and lavish gifts on. So, maybe its a matter of each person's choice.

Some independent providers run longer because they are enjoying themselves.  Others have been know to chat after.  A good hobbyist knows when to leave.  Some hobbyists have left before their "purchased" time.  A good person knows when it is time to leave and doesn't need signals from the provider; however, they should also recognize the signals as well.

5- 10 minutes is the max, or you are taing advantage. If the provider keeps things going, that is up to her then

One hour is one hour. Get 'em out of there.

Now in fairness, I find that many if not most providers think that 50 minutes is one hour, and are pretty aggressive with their hints, so not many guys actually get 1 hour.

But if they do, hey they shouldn't be overstaying.

Unlike the Chicago parking meters which give you 0 secs until the ticket is written. If Daley can give us a minute to run to our cars before getting slapped with a $50 ticket, we should have a few minutes overage before being slapped... period

Got me thinking about time, related to all things worthwhile.

I just started this hobby. So far, I met two ladies. None of them even let me stay for a full hour(for an hour session), yes, I took the hint and then just left as a gent although I would love to have second pop. I am thinking that this maybe the usual case in this hobby. So i decide to cut my appoint time to half hour in the future. Of course, I have no plan to see these two ladies again, they were nice to me in the first half hour.

By the way, both ladies are of good reputation, with reviews 9-10s most of the time.

I don't want to write any reviews and understand now why so many guys don't write reviews.



-- Modified on 1/14/2010 8:36:02 PM

5 to 10 min max seem understandable. I think it is up to the lady though how long it should continue past the hour.

-- Modified on 1/14/2010 10:07:31 PM

So, no full hour, no second pop.

Btw, care to share who the ladies were?

Briar that is stinking funny and you know what?  So true! Like, what does he have to fix his guyliner Dudes need to be more considerate about our time limits and umm, duh we have to get ready for further dates!!!!

XXX-Giselle

Mike I think this problem might say something about the quality of you're ladies, they are the best and we just don't want to leave.

.....but everyone should plan to be in and out within the 30 or 60 minute time.

5-10 minutes should be acceptable for a buffer.  I know I normally look at the clock or my phone when I arrive just to make sure I don't get shorted on time, but I also tend to be doing the 'weeeelll' move to get up by 55 minutes or so.  Now I did have one provider that at 50 minutes started to kiss and rub on me, which we then ran 20 minutes overtime and got a check-in call, but I put that one on her.  I don't want a clock watcher, but after all we are only guys.  If a provider starts to turn up the heat anywhere near the end of the hour, she's going to be running overtime even past the buffer.  There's no way I'm turning down 'bonus' time that is offered verbally or not, and I will not be watching the time at that point.

SMEGMA!!

I don't want to mention their names. No need to damage their "Well known" reputations. However, I am not a repeat customer for sure.

PS. I feel that most of reviews here are exaggerate or these guys are just always lucky. My experience so far makes me believe that majority guys did not get full time they paid for. Either I am wrong or I am totally out of luck.

Rather than paying one hour one pop, I feel my money would be well spent for half hour one pop since I will get only one pop anyway.

----Still not a satisfied customer.


-- Modified on 1/15/2010 6:02:11 PM

Mike we love nothing more than the GFE...the best hint I have taken so far was "Oh I'm sorry, I wish we could keep hanging out but I promised to meet my mom for dinner and I can't be late."

Three situations when more than 5-10 minutes should be given IMHO:

1) As per Smegma, when the girl gets hot and heavy on her own less than 15 minutes before end of the hour.

2) If there is no clearly visible clock and the girl doesn't say anything about the time or move to end the session on her own (I always take off my watch so as not to scratch during more intense sessions)

3) When 3 or more hours are paid for, especially when dinner is part of the package because the time and expense of dinner cannot be planned. I once did a five hour gig with a girl, spent 3.5 hours and $1,500 on dinner, and had her walk out the door the minute the five hour time ended.  I will never see her again.  This may seem unfair, but I think when that much time (and money) are involved, and especially when dinner is involved at a nice restaurant, the clock should be more of a suggestion (on the other hand, two of my ATF's have stayed hours past the "end" of our date in similar situations without any asking or encouragement on my part).

Well, what is proper when you are with an escort, and she gets a call saying that another girl with the agency needs the room for another client and you are at 50 minutes of an hour time frame.  I am always considerate of time, but once I pay for an hour I do expect enough time for a shower.  Just trying to make a point that not every client is 5 to 10 past the hour.  Do agencies or girls give back if a client leaves at 45 minutes.  I am sure that this does not happen often, but I bet it happens.

agencies is that, what if the lady decides to keep the date going on past the hour and after about 10 min she gets a phone call from the agency checking on her. Or exactly what you have mentioned, the agency calling and saying that another lady needs the room for her date.
I completely understand the need for the agency to call and check on the lady, don't get me wrong here, but maybe that is why some go with independent ladies. That way, it goes the way the lady wants it go.
Just thinking out loud.



-- Modified on 1/16/2010 10:48:50 AM

Unless it's one of my regulars and she tells me I can stay longer I always leave on time. I have been lucky and been asked to stay longer but that is not the norm. I assume an hour is an hour and so should we all.

In a first meeting, I may spend twenty minutes or so just chatting and getting to know the guy, either when meeting initially or between pops.  As a result, most dates are not an hour, but ninety minutes or so, even when a client has only booked an hour.  It's not the best practice as far as time management goes, but on the other hand, when I see a guy once, there's a great chance we'll meet repeatedly.  So, I don't complain, unless the good measure gets abused.