Anyone else notice that a significant percentage of providers are a little "crazy". They put in so much time and effort into promoting themselves with photo shoots, ads and postings, but refuse to work with potential clients like a sales department does? A significant percentage really dislike men or clients in general and only see us as a source of money, and at the same time resent it, or us? Then there's the uppity ones that think they're God's gift to men, and think themselves to be far better than other women. I saw a picture the other day of a couple of women standing someplace with signs saying "We're pretty, give us money".

I've noticed the same thing, a few are off the charts "head cases", with all kinds of ideas, beliefs and justifications for things.

How about that a growing percentage hobbyists acting righteous and get angry they have to pay for such an amazing service?!  

Listen, it sounds like you may have had some bad experiences, and that sucks. To say this as politely as possible…this is utter BS and it’s coming off aggressive. You are casting a wide net of unstable emotion on an industry of smart and successful strong men, women, etc…based solely on how they earn a living?  There will always be people with a personality that doesn’t mesh with yours, but that’s life. Honestly, anyone who isn’t a little crazy is pretty boring in my opinion.

Of course we are seen as a source of income, this is their profession after all. Except, in this profession, they put their lives in danger while working in an industry where people expect they deserve the offered service for free. I work in an office with zero chance of getting stabbed and sure as hell don’t do it because my coworkers are swell people. It’s for the money!  

“We’re pretty, give us money…” - yes and thank you, please take it.

I find that posting political crap is a good predictor of this.

Well said.

Thank you! The OP reeks of someone that has a personal vendetta, and is bringing it to the boards.  

If you didn't have fun with your last experience, move on to someone you jive with better. There is no shortage of providers here in Chicago. Find someone you like, rather than spending time talking unnecessary trash.  

There is no need for this hateful bitterness. It's the holidays. Have a heart.

Dorian is correct.  Dont waste time fretting about providers you dont like.  Find a lady you can have fun with.  I am an old guy and prefered mature providers. Now, I have found that younger providers  seem to appreciate me more than the mature ladies.  Just find  the right ladies.  Good Luck.

White Knight crap, I haven't met very many providers that aren't at least a little freaky about something. I think it's also the case for most porn actresses, they probably wouldn't be doing porn if it wasn't for some issues of some sort. I remember one woman a long time ago that had quite a procedure to follow, very orderly process, and her apartment also reflected. I'm not saying they're all bat nuts crazy, I have a few eccentricities like all humans. But some of these ladies are over the top, they "ACT" really sweet, think really highly of themselves, all while they're simply playing men for total fools. The ones I'm referring to, think it's a great achievement to use/fool men and feel like victors walking away with their money. Sort of like defeating someone at a game, in this case the money is the trophy. Do you ever read their twitter feeds? They're bragging and boosting about it and hating on us, and you white knights as well. I understand you're very conscious of your regulars and favorites likely seeing your posts, and you want to come across well to them.

....your observation. However my biggest complaint is how many providers in this era are overweight vs. their images....    at this point it's almost expected. I sure miss the good old days of 15 years ago or so when this type of bait and switch was rare and not standard operating procedure.

No one is required to visit any provider. It’s a free country, at least so far.  

Some providers do seem to have realized that when men start thinking with their genitalia, they often make crazy decisions re money and other things. Again it’s a free country.  

To me it would seem difficult for a provider to do the job adequately, let alone well, if she genuinely disliked men. Well, maybe for a domme it would be an advantage.

It's a luxury business and personally, if someone isn't willing to jump through a couple hoops, ie pay my deposit and pay my rate (without balking), it's significantly more likely they won't be willing to follow my directions or limits in person making them dangerous. As for the whole "pretty give us money thing", I highly doubt anyone would want a provider who didn't have a sense of self confidence or positive body image.

Every business person strives to put their best foot forward so of course providers post professional pics that show them at their best.  Duh! As long as it’s truly them and not overly retouched or out of date that’s totally fair.  
As far as your “ refuse to work with potential clients like a sales department does” I am inferring you are trying to negotiate a lower rate and you’re shocked that they don’t want to see you.  I’m not saying you should never seek a deal,  but haggling with them like their vagina is a used car is insulting.  

Are you truly shocked that their primary motive is money and some even get a thrill out of being paid for sex?  If a moderately attractive woman approached me and not only asked for sex but offered to pay me both heads would be swelling!  If you want to rant about a provider who demands good money and then just lays there that’s a fair critique.  We are paying for a fantasy so I do expect a high end provider to give me her best seductive performance, but if her pussy gets truly tingled by the power she holds to demand hundred bills than that’s a plus in my book.  

As far as  “thinking they're God's gift to men, and think themselves to be far better than other women” they are.  A beautiful sexy woman is one of Gods best creations (or evolutions finest achievement) and they are better than other women.  They are either prettier or more romantic or more raunchy or just more sexually available  because we went looking for them to replace whatever women are in our normal lives that are lacking those qualities.  

Are there BSC providers out there?  Yes, I can name a few. Are their money hungry providers that don’t come even close to the services they claim to offer. Yep. But 95% of those I have been with are wonderful women trying their best and given me great memories.  And I’ve seen over 200 providers.  

If you want a great experience here are two rules I live by:

1- lower your expectations.  I go to the door expecting them to be 15 years older and 40 pounds heavier than their photos suggest.  Most of the time it’s only 5 years and 20 pounds so I’m “pleasantly surprised.”

2 - Validate her. If you follow rule 1 you will automatically be in a good mood and your provider will sense it.  Can you imagine what it’s like to be judged by a stranger at your most vulnerable moment - half naked and afraid that the guy you open the door for could be hideously ugly, a cop or even physically abusive?  What every provider wants is to open the door to a polite client whose eyes go a little wide at the sight of her.  Who’s willing to pay the agreed upon fee and maybe even brings a little gift.  

If she’s more than 15 years and 40 pounds over her advertisement or not the woman in the pictures at all you can politely say, “I’m sorry, I think I’ve come to the wrong room.” or “ You weren’t who I was expecting” and then leave.  If she texts and asks why you left be polite and gently explain your reasoning.    

So feel free to hate on me and tell me I’m part of the problem that “let’s them get away with it”.  But you can read my reviews and know that for an average looking fat guy that civvy women would never look at, I’ve had some damn good sex with some amazingly beautiful women who will legitimately tell you I’m one of their favorite customers. They were worth every goddamn penny!