I've never done a FMTY date. But I have dated over-the-top glamorous providers at ozone-level rates. Honestly, it has never been worth the investment - either mental or financial. I personally won't do it.
Question for those with FMTY experience- how have your experiences been? Any advice for a first timer?
There is someone in particular who I’ve been enamored with (visuals, social media, etc) and would love to fly her to me since she doesn’t seem to travel much. I have, admittedly irrational, worries that it may be a bust and we won’t click. I’m going to do it any know it’ll be great (though she doesn’t have reviews), just could use some direction, lol.
Also- when you do a FMTY, what is your recommend date length? I’m leaning towards a 4 hour dinner date…
Maybe you should consider a FMTY with someone who does have reviews.....or better yet, a touring provider with reviews. Maybe post her name here and see if anyone has seen her and can give you some feedback?? Or do some recon on her local board. Risky move dude.
There's no 100% guarantee for any date. There's always a chance that things won't jive right between you two. However, staying stuck and anxious over this small risk will only make chances of things not going well even bigger. You'll be stuck in your head, anxious and over analyzing, instead of present and enjoying the moment.
The good news-if you've followed her for a while on Twitter and her presence is both consistent and consistently appeals to you, I would argue that's a better indication than reviews written by a bunch of guys who may not even be valuing the same things you do in a companion or date experience.
If you can't let the worry go, then consider giving yourself a little more control and flying to her and booking her date minimum. It'll still cost you, but a date minimum will certainly cost less than a full dinner date. If things go well, then you can fly her to you, or anywhere else your heart desires, the next date.
I've never done a FMTY date. But I have dated over-the-top glamorous providers at ozone-level rates. Honestly, it has never been worth the investment - either mental or financial. I personally won't do it.
and you have every right to have worries, both irrational and rational. Even I get anxious when my first date with someone is a FMTY. What I have come to find though is those worries were/are misplaced. When you reach out to the provider you are interested in, let them know you are excited but also nervous. That gives the provider knowledge and time to work out how they'll approach the engagement to make you feel more comfortable.
In regards to length - consider how far they are having to travel to you. Typically, I always say the further the distance/longer the flight, the longer the engagement. However, 6 hours is the best 'minimum' for FMTY because there are just so many variables: are they meeting you at dinner vs. meeting you at the hotel and then off to dinner, travel time to dinner/back to hotel, how long dinner lasts, etc. etc. In my experience, the 6H engagement tends to be the best for an initial FMTY date.
However, I also agree with Eve above... if you want a bit more control, then fly to their home base and do a dinner date there. Either way, good luck!!!
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