Hi, like the poster just below me I took a break . . . I was Hardee74 but cannot reactivate that name because I can't find the email account I set up.  Messaged TER and hopefully it'll sort out.  Some of the more senior contributors to this Board know me personally, but I think that's more a matter for a private message.  

Anyway . . . I have seen a number of ads for providers here and elsewhere offering "420  friendly" services.  I am interested, but not interested in a provider who would openly advertise that.  (LE? too big a risk for me.)

So, this may be an utterly stupid iniquiry given you only have my word that I'm an experienced hobbyist, but are there any ladies who PRIVATELY are interested in going that route?  If anyone is willing to reply, please do so by PM.  I will do my best to prove my bona fides . . . .